I think u should act chill and make sure they didn't pass it to other ppl. And stop standing out. Like i can't go cuzni reading bl. Or don't be indifferent when ppl talking to you. Ppl we say like ugh this kid must be reading BL bla bla. Just stop make it big deals, otherwise they will always bring that up. And don't go up to their provocation too.
First of all, I do not recommend answering BUT if it's in an online ambient, AND YOU ARE SAFE and just want to make a comeback, then don't try to educate them nor be too serious, just own it, because it's nothing wrong. That's always the best approach.
If it's a guy, tell him "oh, don't worry, you too ugly, even if you gave me your tape I wouldn't watch it, but thanks for the interest" or ask him "why, you got ED? So sorry for you and your flaccid dick"
If it's a gal tell her "oh, God forbid a lady have some FUN around here! Where's the sorority, the feminism, the female sexual freedom lmao".
Either way, you can always say stuff like or "with the power of imagination and gaslighting anything is possible, my friend" OR "of course I can, not my fault YOU lack the vision" or "everything is gay por of you're horny enough"
Here’s a few things you can do:
React: Feels good initially, but there will be no winners and it can get exhausting.
Brush it off: Harder to do. Recognize that they
might have shit going on, and engaging might hurt both parties more.
Lean into it: It’s your interests, your hobby. Be confident about it and take the power away from their words by owning your interests.
Just remember, they are looking for a reaction validation that they have affected you in some way.
Good luck and don’t give up on what you like because people don’t understand (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ
Thank you for your advice, as an update I owned it up and said i read bl and what of it. My friends already know but I was just shocked and uncomfortable that someone outside my circle knows. I guess, it is what it is. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭
I don't think anybody would be that concerned in my business so I think i passed the storm? Hopefully.
So i got made fun of, for reading yaoi/bl what do I say to that