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doomsday April 17, 2024 3:52 pm

So i got made fun of, for reading yaoi/bl what do I say to that

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    doomsday April 17, 2024 3:56 pm

    I'm guessing they knew because of my pfp. Something like my pfp right now.

    Kshii April 17, 2024 4:03 pm
    I'm guessing they knew because of my pfp. Something like my pfp right now. doomsday

    Welp YOLO
    U can't really do anything about it and it's better if u don't try to explain it to them rest is upto u.

    doomsday April 17, 2024 4:04 pm

    True, but I'd like to say something back. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    doomsday April 17, 2024 4:06 pm

    They said something like if gay porn is what you're looking for, you won't find any here.

    Loner April 17, 2024 4:12 pm

    I think u should act chill and make sure they didn't pass it to other ppl. And stop standing out. Like i can't go cuzni reading bl. Or don't be indifferent when ppl talking to you. Ppl we say like ugh this kid must be reading BL bla bla. Just stop make it big deals, otherwise they will always bring that up. And don't go up to their provocation too.

    Omayiva April 17, 2024 4:14 pm
    They said something like if gay porn is what you're looking for, you won't find any here. doomsday

    Just ignore that's the best way

    Loner April 17, 2024 4:16 pm
    I think u should act chill and make sure they didn't pass it to other ppl. And stop standing out. Like i can't go cuzni reading bl. Or don't be indifferent when ppl talking to you. Ppl we say like ugh this kid ... Loner

    Like uhh.stop feeding them with what they want. They might have fun teasing you so the more u stand out the more they full. It's more like u need to stay control of ur self I'm sure this thing will easily forgotten i just hoping they don't make it to big rumour.

    Loner April 17, 2024 4:18 pm
    I'm guessing they knew because of my pfp. Something like my pfp right now. doomsday

    Uh. Have you change it? I think it better to change it. That's why i kinda scared to like yaoi stuff pics. I rather use spammed account whem searching them. :"

    Myllie1 April 17, 2024 4:26 pm
    They said something like if gay porn is what you're looking for, you won't find any here. doomsday

    First of all, I do not recommend answering BUT if it's in an online ambient, AND YOU ARE SAFE and just want to make a comeback, then don't try to educate them nor be too serious, just own it, because it's nothing wrong. That's always the best approach.
    If it's a guy, tell him "oh, don't worry, you too ugly, even if you gave me your tape I wouldn't watch it, but thanks for the interest" or ask him "why, you got ED? So sorry for you and your flaccid dick"
    If it's a gal tell her "oh, God forbid a lady have some FUN around here! Where's the sorority, the feminism, the female sexual freedom lmao".
    Either way, you can always say stuff like or "with the power of imagination and gaslighting anything is possible, my friend" OR "of course I can, not my fault YOU lack the vision" or "everything is gay por of you're horny enough"

    Myllie1 April 17, 2024 4:29 pm

    If YOU are a guy and you aren't out, just block the person and move. Depending on your country, doxxing can be dangerous and homophobia is very real and might put you in harm.

    Grogg April 17, 2024 4:38 pm

    Here’s a few things you can do:

    React: Feels good initially, but there will be no winners and it can get exhausting.
    Brush it off: Harder to do. Recognize that they
    might have shit going on, and engaging might hurt both parties more.
    Lean into it: It’s your interests, your hobby. Be confident about it and take the power away from their words by owning your interests.

    Just remember, they are looking for a reaction validation that they have affected you in some way.

    Good luck and don’t give up on what you like because people don’t understand (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ

    microwave April 17, 2024 5:11 pm

    Push them down the cliff. No evidences.

    hierophant green April 17, 2024 5:25 pm

    As an avid BL fan, it’s perfectly understandable that you’d get made fun of lol. Don’t let random people upset you though, if they arent your friend then their opinion is irrelevant.

    doomsday April 18, 2024 4:17 pm

    Thank you for your advice, as an update I owned it up and said i read bl and what of it. My friends already know but I was just shocked and uncomfortable that someone outside my circle knows. I guess, it is what it is. ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    I don't think anybody would be that concerned in my business so I think i passed the storm? Hopefully.

    doomsday April 18, 2024 4:18 pm

    Again i'd like to thank you all. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧