i need to debrief before i blow up

mads April 15, 2024 2:05 am

I would like to start off by saying that people who blame individuals who have nothing to do with their trauma/problems are sick. Yes the fl was ignorant in the past, but can you really blame her? She was raised alienated from the real world and from what she knew nothing was wrong. The male lead is absolute shit. OH MY FUCKING GOD MY BLOOD BOILS THINKING ABOUT HIM. He has absolutely no right to take out his anguish on a woman who has done nothing but try her best for him. He had YEARS to educate her on what happened/is happening but he decided instead of educating her and communicating to fucking mentally abuse her and isolate her. Knowing the fl she would have heard out every word of the ML and tried to make a difference, even when he father was killed she still put her faith in the ml because she believed in him!! He has no right to hate her if he has no intention of enlightening her. She was never taught or told what was happen how can you expect someone who grew up the way she did to know the harsh truths? And it’s not like she didn’t want to know what was happening but she was just never told and wasn’t shown what was happening. Stop taking out your anger and trauma onto people who have nothing to do with it! The ml fucking knows his wife didn’t know what was happening and he still comes up with this whole “she needs to suffer like i did” even though she has absolutely nothing to do with his suffering!! He liked her when he was younger but because of the torture he went through from her father he decided to gaslight her and then abuse her?? I will never fucking understand why people blame others for their own problems. He needs to stop running away and fucking suck it up. He had no intention in figuring out her trauma or own terrible experiences but he expects her to know everything he had to undergo?? Honestly I need to go and save the FL myself because no one deserves her. She is not ignorant, she holds herself accountable even if she doesn’t need to. She doesn’t hate even when everyone around her chooses hate. This manhwa infuriates me on another level. I wish for the Fls death just so she can get salvation and become an angel away from all the evil she’s living with.

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    Loveis_all April 15, 2024 4:18 am

    Omg finally something i can agree with I'm so sick and tired of people romanticizing abuse physical or mentally like this manhwa got my blood BOILING everytime thr ml say somthing stupid. I really wish the fl dies and reincarnated into a different time where she forget tge ml and meet another person or maybe not she can also just live alone and peaceful. It doesn't even matter I just want the fl to be happy. I literally cry out of frustration multiple times reading this lol