Well the guy is Mugyeong's senior, by Korean standards he should be treated with respect and Mugyeong seems a stickler for rules and stuff. To me he seems like someone bowing to please a senior but he doesn't realize Yohan is getting affected. I hope this experience teaches him to read his partner's mood/feelings atleast a little.
yes to all that. i don't think he's doing it to be mean or 'cause he's in love with him even tho i get why yohan would think so :( BUT he does know it's affecting him *now* and instead of listening to his concerns he ignores what he's saying and leaves lol like damn dude, not saying you need to change your whole personality or what you're doing just talk to your boyfriend about what's upsetting him and figure stuff out. but they've always been shit at communicating so who knows. i do hope he gets better at doing that too tho!!
The thing of him answering every call maybe has something to do with Koreans respect people above u even if they are older by 1 year but it is weird bc wym is bc of a project to go see a movie that shouldn't monopolize his whole time ???????
right?? like i get wanting to be respectful but damn dude it's literally night time, you just had sex and you pick up and agree to go to a movie with your senior asdkjsdfj that's going way above being respectful lol
THAT'S SO TRUE LIKE... THAT'S WHAT I'M TRYING TO SAY! The worst part is that Mugyeong did that right in front of Yohan's face...
WHO DOES THAT TO THEIR BOYFRIEND!? That's not respectful behavior... That's pushover behavior, suspicious behavior, inconsiderate behavior (from both Mugyeong and the sunbae), cheating behavior, ...
Like... Bro just don't... Just end the conversation respectfully because you're now spending precious time with your boyfriend... don't agree late at night to go watch a movie with your sunbae when (once again) your spending your time with your boyfriend...
i feel mean 'cause in your early twenties you're still a fucking idiot (i say in my early 30's, when i'm also still a fucking idiot) and he obviously has a lot of self-confidence issues, but JUST TALK TO YOUR BOYFRIEND AND LISTEN TO HIM. that's all i'm asking. but it's still fucking wild that he keeps fucking up like that and making things worse :)
btw if anyone in their early 20's read this i'm sorry akjdshsjd i'm not being mean, just you know...we grow with time and we learn. i'm not calling anyone an actual idiot
i just re-read the whole thing to stop on a shitty cliffhanger wtf is going on. i wanted softness this isn't what i was expecting AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
and yeah dude don't say it's just 'cause he's your partner on a project when you literally drop everything to pick up his phone call, literally in the middle of a date or after you finished sex. like it's fucking weird. he's right to be upset about it, and to not even listen to his concerns is kinda....off. not saying yohan is completely right either but like come on. the whole "omg no one but you would ever be into me you're being silly" thing kinda fucking bothers me not gonna lie lol
anyway nevermind me. i'm old and tired