■ Seeing how you liked purple hyacinth, you may or may not have read "Olgami/Trapped". You can try reading that if you haven't already. Absolute enemies to lovers and yeah the guy falls first while the fl hates him.
■ "Iseop's Romance" kinda matches your description too as it's from the ml's pov.
■ "Charlotte Has five disciples" isn't completely romance focused but the ml falls first here too (goes through 100+ years of one sided love lolol) while the fl falls later.
Not sure whether you've watched/read any of these:
1. Attack on Titan
2. Your Lie in April
3. A Silent Voice
4. Clannad
5. Your Name
6. Honey and Clover
7. Terror in Resonance
8. 5 centimeters per second
9. Weathering With You
10. The Garden of Words
11. My Dress-Up Darling
12. Rascal Does Not Dream of Bunny Girl Senpai
13. The Kawai Complex Guide to Manors and Hostel Behaviors
14. Insomniacs After School
Other recs:
1. Naruto, Naruto Shippuuden, the whole Naruto related stories (multiple pov from both female/male pov)
2. Horimiya
3. A Sign of Affection
4. Romantic Killer
5. My Happy Marriage
6. The Ice Guy and His Cool Female Colleague
7. Kaguya-sama: Love Is War
8. Chobits
*I enjoy tragic/ bittersweet/ nostalgic love stories a lot, hope you don't mind the sad & heartbreaking recs (I've included some romcom series to the list)
I've read a lot of straight works, where the "love" is shown through the female side....becoming a blushing mess, putting more emphasis on dressing, etc. Is there any work out there, which shows a man in love?
Genuinely curious about how they feel.