pedophile on this website is a catch-all term for underage relationship, so people say anything is pedophilia if it seems like someone older is with someone below the age of 18. I don't know why they think that and I don't know why they miscategorize so much stuff here underneath that label, but it is what it is.
Personally, I think this detail of this website is hilarious, but sometimes it gets confusing.
I keep saying this. He’s not prepubescent so it can’t by definition be pedophilia. Plus the older guy isn’t much older anyway. I think people just like to be dramatic and push their views on other people…plus, I can differentiate between fantasy and reality ╮(￣▽￣)╭
Right?? And then they say, "Oh you support pedophilia" like no we don't, we just differentiate this stuff better than they do...
Idk it's a quirk of this website and I personally don't want to trigger people on this site and get hounded for years... I've seen people argue for days about this and it's so stupid, like, at least get your facts straight. It's uncomfortable to see, probably grooming, but that doesn't mean it's pedophilia...
It's like saying all molesters are rapists, like no there's a fine difference.
(Personally, I'd prefer if it wasn't sexual honestly, but that doesn't mean it's pedophilia.)
thank you guys im glad i wasnt the only one who thought this
Any time! I just don’t read the yaoi that doesn’t appeal to me. I don’t try to push my preferences on others, because again, I can differentiate fiction from reality, and this is definitely fiction…
I personally enjoy the sexual context, in this non-pedophilic way. But I would never push my preferences onto anyone else. If I don’t like it, I just don’t read it. This is fiction and I can enjoy it without being a horrible person. Just like all the horrific movies out there. IRL I’d probably put the guy in the hospital (or run away maybe). But I can enjoy fiction without getting all hurt over it…so no, it by no means indicates we’re at all supporting this kind of behavior, it’s just entertainment.
I mean, BDSM is based off the same concept. It’s the what if factor that is fun. If it actually happened it (like went too far) would be traumatic.
what? isn’t the older guy 27 and the younger 17?
they probably meant didn't look much older.
Regardless, I think the point they were trying to make is tthat it's not pedophilia.
wait what im confused about the ''pedophelia" cu i thought he said he was 16 and the other guy is in school so am i slow was he not being fr ??