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Most definitely groomed him
It's not. There's nothing romantic happening rn except him having a crush. Not much different from say having a crush on your older siblings bff & growing up to one day marry them. Nothing happening while under age, not everything is grooming
I mean yes and no it says she in her early twenties and he’s 15 but later says they’re 16 years apart making her 31 and it’s quite obvious that he’s in love with her but she’s entertaining it Teasing him and not shutting it down Even though a child’s crush is harmless it is not harmless for an adult to feed into that crush It’s borderline grooming And emotional manipulation especially bc they’re already married and going to divorce and saying nothing happened while underage is a Predator statement It’s like the men who groom, young girls and wait for them to turn 18 so the world sees them as women and now they have a pass
exactly.
They are only 6 years apart, she's definitely not 30.
Girl you sound like a grooming apologist/protector whether it’s six years or 16 it’s still predatory and the book itself says 16 but in the beginning, it says she’s in her early 20s. I said we don’t know her exact age. She’s either 21 or she’s 31 which still is a predatory age to pick up a 15-year-old like come on you nitpick one part of my response doesn’t invalidate the facts 21 and 15 is gross 31 and 15 is disgusting it’s even more disgraceful that she acknowledges the fact that it could be pedophilic or predatory to get in a relationship with a child, especially because she’s using financial and emotional manipulation against the child she knowingly uses his caretakers health against him. She knowingly uses his financial state against him. She knowingly uses his title against him, and then she’s bombing him, giving him access to all these things, and she sees it and acknowledges that the little boy has a crush on her or is liking her and he’s making it quite obvious and she’s doing nothing to stop this little boys crush, he’s a child. She’s an adult. She has the responsibility.
Age gap between a child and adult is a hell of a hill to die on and no matter how large or small the gap is one party is a child and the other is a adult 6 years doesn’t make it better 21-year-old should not be engaging with teenagers. Point blank. I’m not about to fight with you. I’m not arguing with you. These are the laws that we’ve come up with because scientifically and morally/ethically We know it’s wrong. Statutory rap3 and grooming are wrong/illegal/immoral/disgusting this situation is a clear indicator of rap3 culture being perpetuated/ protected you should reflect bc it’s disrespectful and disgraceful to argue for it I don’t know what it is the way you’ve been educated and internalized misogyny but it doesn’t matter whether it’s for the sake of romance or real life it’s disgusting and you know in the beginning I kind of understood you because no she’s not in a relationship with little boy but she’s not shutting it down and that’s why I’m shutting you down because I’m not an apologist or protector I’m never on the side of the rap!st I will never feed into that culture and I wanna make it clear that you shouldn’t either
Yeah grooming and solicitation of a minor Going on here, large undertones of pedophilia aspects are clearly showcased as well as Lots of predatory behavior If it’s not pedophilic, it’s borderline and that is close enough for me to say it’s weird
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So by your own words if a little kid likes you. You're now the groomer right?
Like I clearly wrote out and stated what was wrong about their relationship and why her actions make it pedophilic and what exactly she’s doing to be a groomer I don’t get why I have to explain it to you again other that the fact that you lack reading comprehension
What are you even saying the lack of reading comprehension is really getting to you bc you’re loud and wrong I literally never said that I said that a child’s crush is harmless but it’s not harmless to feed into it and not shut it down then I further list why their relationship is wrong and I stated that he’s a boy a child and she’s a full grown adult woman the responsibility lays with her to set boundaries, define their relationship and create a healthy one its the adult job to address the situation and know right from wrong and as a adult it’s her obligation to control and correct him as a adult you don’t take advantage of children in any circumstances you shut them down and educate them on why it’s not okay she’s encouraging and entertaining a child by leading him on and not setting him straight it’s wrong it’s the adults moral ethical and legal responsibility and obligation to not groom children or give any notion of romantic involvement with a child
Like womp womp I’m not ever going to justify or defend pedophilia she’s in the wrong she has the responsibility and obligation as the adult and he’s a child that’s the facts and I’m not going to let you twist my words bc you didn’t properly read them your moral compass is shot and your reading comprehension is nonexistent
Womp womp. It's your own words. The person doesn't like the child doesn't know about it yet you scream pedo. Mirror much? You might be the pedo lol
Not her problem someone likes her. If the person won't change her words won't mean a thing. Stop victim blaming lol.
Teleiophilia not Pedophilia.
Oh god predator?? She doesn't like him back. Please go read what an actual predator is.
Omg you literally can see what I said in the thread you twisted to fit your narrative it truly shows that you simply don’t know how to read and have negative brain cells bc where did I say that word for word bar for bar copy and paste I said “ he’s in love with her but she’s entertaining it Teasing him and not shutting it down Even though a child’s crush is harmless it is not harmless for an adult to feed into that crush It’s borderline grooming And emotional manipulation ” and multiple times I said it could be, it’s giving or is borderline pedophilic
like I need you to be so f real right now because the logic isn’t here and the projection is pathetic
Grooming is a tactic where someone methodically builds a trusting relationship with a child or young adult, their family, and community to manipulate, coerce, or force the child Into illegal acts threatens him with his title and his only family member/servant /Caretaker Using his life/Health as leverage Financially manipulates him by enticing him a child with money
This is what I said about it and I quote “ financial and emotional manipulation against the child she knowingly uses his caretakers health against him. She knowingly uses his financial state against him. She knowingly uses his title against him, and then she’s bombing him, giving him access to all these things, and she sees it and acknowledges that the little boy has a crush on her or is liking her and he’s making it quite obvious and she’s doing nothing to stop this little boys crush, he’s a child. She’s an adult. She has the responsibility.”
SHE IS NOT A VICTIM not not of slander, not Of defamation because these are facts of what she did she did all of this by her own admission and volition
Girl bye I said it’s Predatory behavior/ predatory and by definition predatory is seeking to exploit or oppress others. Predatory behavior refers to actions and conduct characterized by the exploitation, manipulation, or harm of others for personal gain, satisfaction, or gratification.
She’s exploiting him not only financially but emotionally and using a loved one’s health for leverage for her own benefit she’s literally forcing and using a child to commit marriage fraud and exploiting his feelings for personal gain
Again yall don’t have reading comprehension and are foaming at the mouth like the cretin yall are
Simply put don’t exploit children don’t manipulate children
If a child likes you as adults you have to put an end to it not use that as a tool for personal gain you shut it down you don’t feed into it you educate them on why that is inappropriate and there is no romantic relationship and that anything of that nature is wrong
if a child in the care of an adult it is there responsibility and obligation
Chill you're making yourself look more like the idiot in this situation. You're victim blaming right now. And calling someone brainless when you yourself do not understand what teleiophilia means. Please educate yourself, a single google might do you a favor.
Can someone tell me if this is pedophile?
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