HELP ME FIND THIS BL PLS

i need help finding a bl i read years ago. i cant really remember the whole plot but i'll list elements and specific scenes i remember
- fully colored
- had elements of bdsm in it (using sex toys, candles, spanking)
- main couple lived together im pretty sure

specific scenes i can remember:
- went out on a date to some park wearing hanbok i think?
- lots of drinking out with friends
- lots of fighting
- uke got locked/moved out of house at some point? then got lost and seme found him
- went out to get fortune told and resulted in seme spanking uke with a paddle ?
now that i write it out this sounds like every bl out there.... but if anybody would take the time to go thru my reading list im sure its in there somewhere (might be currently or alr read)