Weird Relationship

monsterfiend23 March 30, 2024 4:51 am

Ughh I dislike stories that have a weird relationship between a parent like figure and a child like figure who end up having a romantic relationship. Like was Hearth a groomer? O.o i know with Seoha it’s different but still, Shane was a child and grew up with Hearth, it feels weird that he has romantic feelings for him

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    mylo March 30, 2024 2:33 pm

    wait how does that make hearth a groomer..?

    monsterfiend23 March 30, 2024 10:22 pm
    wait how does that make hearth a groomer..? mylo

    I mean I’m not saying for sure he was, but he was like a parental figure to this child and the child develops romantic feelings for Heath (common of grooming relationships)

    mylo March 31, 2024 4:20 am
    I mean I’m not saying for sure he was, but he was like a parental figure to this child and the child develops romantic feelings for Heath (common of grooming relationships) monsterfiend23

    correct me if i’m wrong but isn’t grooming if the an adult intentionally exploits and manipulates your child into a relationship aka them being like “you’re mature for your age” and etc. but hearth doesn’t even remember the blonde hair in their somewhat past life so he most definitely doesn’t see him as his child.

    Neni April 3, 2024 9:42 pm

    You should really stop addressing every trope with a problematic behavior.
    Heart was a caretaker. It's not uncommon for children to develop attachment for their caretakers, it doesn't make them automatically groomers... This is a common narrative trope, stop reading too much into it

    Ansatsusama April 4, 2024 1:51 am
    wait how does that make hearth a groomer..? mylo

    You are out of context here... Heart don't have Romantic feelings for Shane. He love him like a brother/charming it's a agape kind of love FAR FAR FAR AWAY of grooming (not only exist the sexual love) And for athoter SIDE of this coin You have Seoha. Seoha don't have ANY memories, nothings is another person totally new he only hace the trauma with touching others. Don't understand me here I'm not romantizing grooming NEVER do it. The groomers only have two options in this life to make a BETTER world simple and fast bullet and to the river. But in this story is more complex cause it's show the reencarnation problems when You have a new being and other that is cling to old one You that not longer exist. How we can live in this life with the burdens of the old one yours but not yours anymore.

    Ansatsusama April 4, 2024 1:52 am
    You are out of context here... Heart don't have Romantic feelings for Shane. He love him like a brother/charming it's a agape kind of love FAR FAR FAR AWAY of grooming (not only exist the sexual love) And for a... Ansatsusama

    Mis understand me dorry6

    Ansatsusama April 4, 2024 1:52 am
    You are out of context here... Heart don't have Romantic feelings for Shane. He love him like a brother/charming it's a agape kind of love FAR FAR FAR AWAY of grooming (not only exist the sexual love) And for a... Ansatsusama

    Mis understand me sorry

    Yaoi Hungry April 4, 2024 4:58 am

    That makes no sense. He isnt a groomer. To groom, Hearth had to have feelings for Shane, which he did not at that time. He simply took care of Shane cause that was his duty. It was Shane who fell in love with Hearth, regardless of Hearth's feelings.

    Ansatsusama April 4, 2024 9:43 am
    That makes no sense. He isnt a groomer. To groom, Hearth had to have feelings for Shane, which he did not at that time. He simply took care of Shane cause that was his duty. It was Shane who fell in love with H... Yaoi Hungry

    True

    mylo April 5, 2024 2:11 am
    You are out of context here... Heart don't have Romantic feelings for Shane. He love him like a brother/charming it's a agape kind of love FAR FAR FAR AWAY of grooming (not only exist the sexual love) And for a... Ansatsusama

    i don’t mean to be rude but i’m not reading all that. write a book buddy

    Ansatsusama April 5, 2024 7:10 pm
    i don’t mean to be rude but i’m not reading all that. write a book buddy mylo

    WTF? It's doesn't matter just a opinion ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍

    mylo April 6, 2024 4:37 am
    WTF? It's doesn't matter just a opinion ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍ Ansatsusama

    well i don’t know what you said bc i didn’t read it i only put that much effort into reading when im interested in it, but respectfully i don’t find this conversation interesting

    BlueDragon1217 April 25, 2024 12:06 am
    well i don’t know what you said bc i didn’t read it i only put that much effort into reading when im interested in it, but respectfully i don’t find this conversation interesting mylo

    But you find this convo interesting enough to leave 2 comments here

    mylo April 25, 2024 12:10 am
    But you find this convo interesting enough to leave 2 comments here BlueDragon1217

    leaving 2 comments isn’t going to take 23 hours out of my day and it’s much effort. i could care less and leave how many comments i want common sense.

    Ansatsusama April 25, 2024 9:23 am
    leaving 2 comments isn’t going to take 23 hours out of my day and it’s much effort. i could care less and leave how many comments i want common sense. mylo

    True I must agree

    Okarisu June 21, 2024 11:24 pm

    Older comment ik ik. Firstly, I don’t think it’s grooming. If a kid develops a crush on an adult, that does not mean the adult groomed them. It just means the kid has a crush on them. Like, if a first grader said they wanted to marry their teacher, your first thought isn’t gonna be that the teacher groomed them but that the kid’s got a crush.
    That being said, I also think there’s another element here. For instance, in Makai Ouji, Dantalian had feelings for Solomon—his master, iirc—and therefore stuck around William. I haven’t read the whole thing but what’s important to remember is that William is not actually Solomon, no matter how much Dantalion says he is. A descendent, a reincarnation, whatever—William does not know Dantalion and does not have the same relationship with him. That’s why I wouldn’t even call it a master-servant relationship. Because William isn’t Dantalion’s master. Solomon was.

    Ansatsusama June 22, 2024 12:00 pm
    Older comment ik ik. Firstly, I don’t think it’s grooming. If a kid develops a crush on an adult, that does not mean the adult groomed them. It just means the kid has a crush on them. Like, if a first grade... Okarisu

    True, I loved makai Ouji was a good read