YES and they write it like it's a cute thing but him getting actually pissed at him for chilling with his friend is annoying. That isnt cute !! I like possessive ness but when it makes sense or if they address he needs to tone it down, but when they have him straight up not liking his boyfriend being friends with people and ASKING his boyfriend to stop being friends with people is a trope that needs to die
Right? This feels like some thriller rather than romance, fuckin scary
Thriller is right because this is the type of behaviour you see in true crime docs before someone kills their spouse. Crazy to see that being shown as cute...
They rarely address it. This takes me back to when the seme was becoming emotionally abusive in My Suha. Uke found out his SO lied to his family and hid his phone to isolate him; his response? He cried for like a chapter or 2, then it was poor seme has abandonment issues, then they glossed over it and they're a happy couple.
The uke in this story doesn't even have a negative reaction like in my suha, he actually enables it. So, I highly doubt we'll even get a panel addressing it.
I hate when they do that!! like like damn, please get mad that man not only disrespected you but probably violated like five of your human rights
I really hope they dont do that where he does something awful then gets forgiven immediately cause of his tragic backstory. I mean, sure forgive him but i pray if something actually does happen he has a backbone and actually feels angry for a decent bit instead of being mildly upset for a chapter or two before reverting to "poor him<3 he needs me"
And yeah, they never really address this stuff, it usually only the sss tier, high quality stories that ever acknowledge that behaviour is destructive
This was kinda fluffyish and the seme is going red flag psycho. I know he was always portrayed as possessive but he went crazy this chapter.
1. A FRIEND has their arm around your spouse and you get pissy? So he can't be close to friends?
2. He can't have anyone's number saved??? What do you mean delete the ones he doesn't need?
3. This one was the biggest ick for me. Your spouse suggests a nice place to go and your FIRST reaction is to press them about who they went with?? So, should he jump into a time machine and erase any memories he had with non-relatives that weren't you??? He went with those people before you guys were dating, so it's literally irrelevant. Even if he went out with people while yall were official, should he no longer go out with friends and classmates?
It's so exhausting seeing authors romanticize this type of scary behaviour. And ofc the uke just rolls over and nods his head yes like an airhead.