Otomen is one of my favorite shoujos! The main character, Asuka, has very feminine hobbies, but he has to hide them because his mother pushes him to be super masculine.
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/otomen/
Another one I loved was Library Wars. I read both of them in high school so I might've let a lot of things slide, but overall I think they were both pretty good.
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/library_wars_love_war/
I also don't read that much shoujo and prefer shounen-ai, but here are some shoujo-ais that I like:
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/5_seconds_before_a_witch_falls_in_love/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_guy_she_was_interested_in_wasn_t_a_guy_at_all/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/soulmate_yuri/
so finally trying non yaoi/shounen ai mangas but i don't know which one to pick since all shoujo looks the same to me