that one hurt.

Funny how you keep replying to comments saying its your opinion but in the original post you literally say to argue with a wall if someone disagrees.. doesn't sound like you meant it as an opinion but the truth. And in the nicest way possible, even if you don't mean it, it does sound like you're invalidating daddy issues. So if you really didn't mean to invalidate anyone's experience, please look back on the comment you made. It may not look invalidating to you but it may as well to another, that's just how the world works. Putting out mean comments in reply to comments calling you out is not gonna do anything

No one is saying its a competition? Ur taking it too much to heart? Its basic psychology.. and theyre saying its THEIR opinion, if you can’t handle a basic opinion about psychology idk how you survive lol

omg.. are you by chance.. special needs?.. mybad please live a happy life together with op y'all need it

being sensitive then acting ableist lord yall are such hypocrites

damn who hurt yall. it didn’t turn into an arguing match until people went from talking to the actual topic to talking about me as if i came for their throat. seek help actually??? mommy and daddy issues are not mental illness yall are actually losing the plot

this whole thread turned into a “i like waffles” “so you hate pancakes” conversation. funny how you couldn’t see that and i only said it was true to defend my perspective because genuinely if something is logical to you it’ll be seen as true… saying argue with a wall = not looking for mean engagement because ik some of yall like to tussle when something is not personally offensive or made to offend but it ended up happening anyway

just like if you like mint chocolate ice cream you’ll think it’s better than vanilla. we know it’s not inherently true, and it’s based on personal taste or feelings. it’s similar to this convo, there’s nuance to it!!! no one was wrong until i was called rude names and people took the conversation to point a to point d. the comments weren’t “calling me out” after i replied and literally said it was my opinion?? they started calling me names like why are you pretending like i was rude for no reason first lmao

my god your fucking slow and these comparisons are no where near the same??

the comprehension devil got to you oh no

i don’t get why people took personal offense to something that was very obviously subjective and based on my thoughts/interactions with the world?? they were misconstruing my entire point based on an exaggerated assumption lmao they’re insane

omg yall actually need fucking help. are the daddy issues finally getting into your head or something?

ugly ass thing to say. yall are so sensitive, got triggered, then start spewing the craziest shit to gain one over someone. weirdo

Dude you clearly admitted that you posted your opinion as being true and not subjective, then why are you mad when people are counter attacking?? You had MULTIPLE chances to say it was your opinion but it wasn't until you were corner by facts that you said it. Sure it was your opinion, but it's as you said, you considered it as the truth so you posted it as the truth. And your truth was subjective. That's why people replied. This is a public topic. Oh and, no matter what kind of opinion you have, if it's subjective, you WILL know that it's subjective and what YOU perceive to be true, not what is objectively true. That is why people say, " in my opinion " whenever stating something. It's like saying " Mint chocolate is better than vanilla ", people who believe vanilla is better that mint chocolate are gonna counter because my statement feels like stating a universal truth. It's not. BUT, if I say, " in my opinion, mint chocolate is better than vanilla " in the comment that starts a topic, not only will I get less backlash, I will also get to properly defend myself BECAUSE I stated it was my opinion from the very start.

i don’t have to overly explain my words just so people don’t get overly defensive bro ? there’s this things called discussion and questioning. the assumptions you’re making go beyond what i actually talked about. i repeated MULTIPLE times it was my opinion and no one gave facts to argue with me they just said their opinion + insults!! the way you keep lying about the entire interaction says a lot. im not saying people can’t talk under here, i complained they should make their own post if they have to resort to being mean in order to get their point across when this take isn’t even problematic…

this was a hot take yes but its not a personal dig and if they felt that way thats their problem to handle. the way some of you need to be spoon fed information is honestly so sad and scary oh my fucking god. because instead of the actual topic at hand, you’re more upset that i used non-specific language? really?? as though i didnt already CLARIFY its personal opinion/subjective as if the answer is not right in front of you. some of yall chose to be offended over the weirdest things and its pathetic

because how is my use of language to reiterate an obvious point of subjective > objective the oh so important topic at hand when the literal person you are defending started being ableist ?

there are far better things to call out than this my dude. i wasn’t the angry one i was defending myself. and the fact i had to explain that is ridiculous. you find the integrity of my grammar more important than an actual problematic use of ill-intent words, you cannot be serious.

i get it’s your opinion but if you’re gonna act like your original comment was subjective, it doesn’t help when you say “one was much more terrible and it’s true” — that’s an objective statement

again, why is my lack of language the actual problem more than the topic at hand? ive specified multiple times it’s my opinion and only claimed it as the truth, to ME, when people got upset why i think this way. the only thing that phrase lacks is “it’s true to me” but then it’s followed by my personal reasoning because historically the way society puts mothers on a pedestal compared to fathers. i made a subjective statement followed by an objective truth… i get people have a hard time reading in between the lines but if you believe in something = it’s true to you- just like how others here believe that both mommy/daddy issues are incomparable. i was quite literally just defending myself when i said it was true because of the names i was called ??

if my use of language is the problem why not also come for the commenters for doing the exact thing you’re calling out…