the argument doesnt exist bc issues like those shouldnt be compared :/ theyre both horrible
you’re arguing with a wall right now !
daddy issues are caused by just some guy, you’re bound to be hurt by a man in a patriarchal society lmao… while mommy issues are soul crushing, universe shifting, and psychologically torturing, if anyone’s confused
this is so weird its not a competition, plus its not just "some guy" its your dad... dont be annoying lmao
love you're basing this off of nothing but your opinion, but uh turns out neither is actually worse and no one gains anything by pitting them against each other in a doomer competition
ugh another one. make your own post then?? i said one was worse than the other, not invalidating it at all. there’s no competition when one is clearly more terrible to ME lmao. and yea sadly dads are just random dudes but moms are everything else and in between majority of the time! and have been historically been… hope this helps
woah so shocking when my opinion is based on umm my opinion!! like i keep saying, you are arguing with a wall because men have always been not shit lol. and uh yes to ME one is worse than the other!! and not to YOU!! its fine just carry on brother, mommy issues are far worse sorry you had to hear it through me
"i said one was worse than the other, not invalidating at all" crazy how you don't see how contradictory that is? ofc its fucking invalidating to anyone who struggles with those issues because its still their FAMILY betraying them at the end of the day. maybe to you a father is just a random dude but that is not the case to so many people.
also i dont know why you're shocked that people are responding to the comment that you made. you put this out there publicly, so deal with the response. no one forced you to comment this dumbass shit but you did it anyways so
cba trying to reason with low IQ probably 13 year old rn but like go read a book or go cry to mommy or something
omg a dumbass comment that again proves nothing when this is literally just an opinion different from yours. that sucks for other people with horrible fathers that will never amount to horrible mothers then idk?? and LMAO not shocked people disagree smart one, i brought up making your own post because you were rude for no reason like… just move on if you don’t like it, it’s not that serious weirdo
hey listen it’s not my fault dad doesn’t love you okay, im here whenever <3! you should heal instead of taking it out on strangers on the internet
im genuinely concerned about you, multiple calls are coming from inside your house :C please reach out to a professional or a trusted adult
everyone arguing here proving nothing but doing the whole “well all parental traumas were built equal” but historically and subjectively speaking… not to me. shocking i know!!!
you can have different opinions but being rude = blocked because this literally doesn’t even personally come after anyone??? being annoying doesn’t work sadly
wow how cool. but uh if you couldn’t tell im only throwing shots back at people who got really mean first so idk what the problem is . wouldn’t have said all that if they weren’t weird first
"they werent weird first" ... have you read your original comment? come on now..
yall are acting like i said people who with daddy issues = not real problems. however all i said was one was much more terrible and it’s true? think about household dynamics and expectations mothers have over fathers. we live in a patriarchal society so im really not trying to be rude but think for a minute how much closer a mother is to her kids compared to the father based on the patriarchal society we live in. leaving out outliers, historically mothers have been the backbone and basically sole caretaker of a child so to ME their betrayal is on a different scale compared to a fathers. daddy issues give pain and trauma yes, but not on the same level as mommy issues and that’s really not specifically being mean or invalidating
i don’t mind getting in debates or differing opinions but not when there’s words being put into my mouth/being plain rude, it’s weird…
dude get help, you dont seem to be able to have any critical thought...
Idk how people are mad at you for this, its literally true.. serial killers are more likely to have mommy issues
How? Their reply very much has critical thought and you can even research it, mommy issues can make a person a sociopath while daddy issues you just want attention from men
the point is NOT to compare actual mental issues with another as it is NOT a competition. to put it in a rank means one illness is less than the other, literally making one "lighter" so the other would be "heavier", which is incredibly invalidating and dismissive.
imagine someone telling you to suck it up when your father dies because another person's mother died too, like? do you not see how dumb and damaging that is? both situations are horrible. do you still not understand?
im gonna sob when his backstory with his mom is put out in detail… mommy issues are much more terrible than daddy issues yall can argue with a wall about this one