i get how the bf feels about having someone you love confide to someone unexpected and is not relatively close at all in terms of relationship w your partner. His feelings are valid but if that's how his partner copes, then I think he should support it. That's what I think is the best solution for now but the gf isn't actually talking to the janitor tho haha.
Seems like the bf rlly cares for gf and wants her to talk about it BUT gf doesn't want to make the situation a big deal as a way to relieve her mind. I don't think gf is ignoring her problem, she looks like she's trying to maintain her calm. Bf will probably snap and bulldoze his way to her problems one day and will probs cause a stir in gf's current-simple life. Change vs consistency.
i get how the bf feels about having someone you love confide to someone unexpected and is not relatively close at all in terms of relationship w your partner. His feelings are valid but if that's how his partner copes, then I think he should support it. That's what I think is the best solution for now but the gf isn't actually talking to the janitor tho haha.
Seems like the bf rlly cares for gf and wants her to talk about it BUT gf doesn't want to make the situation a big deal as a way to relieve her mind. I don't think gf is ignoring her problem, she looks like she's trying to maintain her calm. Bf will probably snap and bulldoze his way to her problems one day and will probs cause a stir in gf's current-simple life. Change vs consistency.
I think they won't last long but who knows.