Uh-oh. I was hoping they would have time to talk about their mothers and bond a little (tr...

kazis March 21, 2024 8:38 am

Uh-oh.
I was hoping they would have time to talk about their mothers and bond a little (trauma bonding, yayyy). They both are so precious, I don't want them to suffer or stop talking to each other :c

Responses
    Channy March 21, 2024 2:20 pm

    It wouldn't be trauma bonding between them because they're not in a toxic relationship. A trauma bond is what a victim and abuser have. Many people mix it up so I get the confusion

    daddyrie March 21, 2024 4:44 pm
    It wouldn't be trauma bonding between them because they're not in a toxic relationship. A trauma bond is what a victim and abuser have. Many people mix it up so I get the confusion Channy

    that’s not true, trauma bonding is just when you bond with someone over similar pasts filled with trauma. just as the name says. look it up

    kazis March 21, 2024 6:55 pm
    that’s not true, trauma bonding is just when you bond with someone over similar pasts filled with trauma. just as the name says. look it up daddyrie

    Yeah, that's what I meant in any way

    kazis March 21, 2024 7:55 pm

    Mangagooooo, stop cutting my sentences pls or else they sound rude.
    There also: I haven't heard about the other meaning tbh

    Channy March 22, 2024 8:37 pm
    that’s not true, trauma bonding is just when you bond with someone over similar pasts filled with trauma. just as the name says. look it up daddyrie

    I did look it up, on multiple sources, even the first result is "Trauma bonding is an unhealthy emotional attachment to someone who causes you physical, emotional, and/or sexual harm." It would be nice to check your facts before you say others to do so.

    kazis March 22, 2024 9:58 pm
    I did look it up, on multiple sources, even the first result is "Trauma bonding is an unhealthy emotional attachment to someone who causes you physical, emotional, and/or sexual harm." It would be nice to check... Channy

    It's interesting how people changed the meaning then

    kazis March 22, 2024 10:01 pm

    I still think it's okay to use it in this meaning with a context, on a forum, where people would understand what you mean.

    kazis March 22, 2024 10:03 pm

    ?!?!?! MY LONG COMMENT, AGAIN?!?
    Anyway, Channy, if you read it, thank you for sharing, it also works as slang, I didn't know that, it was interesting!

    Channy March 23, 2024 1:14 pm
    ?!?!?! MY LONG COMMENT, AGAIN?!?Anyway, Channy, if you read it, thank you for sharing, it also works as slang, I didn't know that, it was interesting! kazis

    Sharing is caring lol have a good day

    daddyrie March 23, 2024 1:22 pm
    I did look it up, on multiple sources, even the first result is "Trauma bonding is an unhealthy emotional attachment to someone who causes you physical, emotional, and/or sexual harm." It would be nice to check... Channy

    my bad but it’s pretty obvious that op was talking about the slang definition, phrases/words don’t strictly have one meaning

    plinky25 March 24, 2024 11:32 pm
    I did look it up, on multiple sources, even the first result is "Trauma bonding is an unhealthy emotional attachment to someone who causes you physical, emotional, and/or sexual harm." It would be nice to check... Channy

    I mean it means both. Now most people use it in a way that means two people who have trauma share each other’s stories and bond over it. Basically getting closer by knowing each other’s darkest memories. Many words aren’t used for one meaning only and over the years people tend to add more meanings and uses for words.