Guys I need help like fr

i think you should communicate this with him and ask exactly what he wants from your relationship. and be as direct as possible so if he gives vague answers i suggest you drop him

if he’s giving you mixed signals, it’s very confusing! you seem very enthusiastic to talk to him and make time to converse compared to him. id suggest having a heart to heart, and asking what his expectations are out of all this and then being honest with your feelings as well

if a person truly likes you and is interested, they will make time even when they “don’t like conversations” (?). men aren’t dumb and know when to entertain and engage based on their feelings. it’s not wrong to feel this way, but be prepared for any answer- whether it be rejection or wanting to pursue a relationship! good luck to you, and know you deserve someone who eagerly messages and takes time to know you

if this person is younger, they’re being “im this” but acts the other way. they try to establish something they’re not to make an impression or make you think they’re like this or that, which gives you mix signal.


imo, you have to observe him. don’t put you feelings on the person yet. you can appreciate what he’s doing but don’t mistake what you feel as feeling for him. observe if “that behavior” extend to his other efforts (like when he tell you he doesn’t like playing this but he played it with you consistently and enthusiasticly for a long time). You can conclude that maybe he is in fact trying to hint that you are special to him bc he does those stuff he usually don’t do. atp, you can also ask what are you guys on, what are his plans. you have to take note that it has to take time to observe. don’t rush it. appreciate him verbally too.

but it they’re older, i think you have to dodge them. that’s crazy behavior trying to give mix signals at their age and not communicating properly? NAH. YOU HAVE TO DODGE IT

THANK YOU ALL GUYS!!!! This actually helped me clear some things up . I love y’all, tyyyy for giving advice