I understand him completely.. my relationship with my father is similar. I finally cut him off for good, but for the longest time, we had this on and off again thing where he guilts me back into his life, and I regret it every time.. its so hard when your dad has problems, and you know its his fault, but you cant help but feel indebted or sorry for the old lonely man. It takes a lot of willpower to keep these people away.
I understand him completely.. my relationship with my father is similar. I finally cut him off for good, but for the longest time, we had this on and off again thing where he guilts me back into his life, and I regret it every time.. its so hard when your dad has problems, and you know its his fault, but you cant help but feel indebted or sorry for the old lonely man. It takes a lot of willpower to keep these people away.