i’m confused.. aren’t ian and jo official? they literally confessed.. why is ian still...

tatiisok March 11, 2024 3:56 am

i’m confused.. aren’t ian and jo official? they literally confessed.. why is ian still fw tj?

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    LaNansha March 11, 2024 4:09 am

    They’re not official. Ian told him he couldn’t commit to a relationship and would be seeing other people. Jo left, heartbroken. Then he came back and asked if Ian liked him. Ian said he did. Jo said that if he likes him, then he’s willing to see Ian under the terms that they’re in a non-exclusive friends with benefits relationship. So Ian is free to see both Jo and TJ and anyone else he likes. All parties are okay with this.

    monologue March 11, 2024 4:25 am
    They’re not official. Ian told him he couldn’t commit to a relationship and would be seeing other people. Jo left, heartbroken. Then he came back and asked if Ian liked him. Ian said he did. Jo said that if... LaNansha

    Gotta say I don’t think Jo is REALLY okay with it like Hoin in lucky paradise. And for that matter I don’t think TJ really is either

    LaNansha March 11, 2024 4:33 am
    Gotta say I don’t think Jo is REALLY okay with it like Hoin in lucky paradise. And for that matter I don’t think TJ really is either monologue

    Well to be fair neither Jo or TJ are okay with sharing Ian. They’d like to have him for themselves. However they’ve accepted that he can’t give them more than a “non-exclusive friends with benefits” situationship. If they’re not okay with other, they can either

    1. ask Ian to choose—which he doesn’t want to, so they might lose him over that

    2. stop sleeping with him, which none of them want to because they’re sexually attached to each other

    3. they can stop seeing him, which isn’t likely to happen either

    So I’m sure we’ll be in this limbo until the story ends. I hear there are four seasons of this

    _mydelusionalass March 11, 2024 7:43 am
    Gotta say I don’t think Jo is REALLY okay with it like Hoin in lucky paradise. And for that matter I don’t think TJ really is either monologue

    I feel bad for jo but ian jas clearly told him he isn't ready for the type of relationship jo wants yet . Same for tj . His situation with ian is even more complicated