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Majority of people who write bl are women, and they don’t realise it but they apply gender roles to the ukes and the semes. That’s why in a lot of bl (especially the older ones) ukes act almost feminine and are smaller and ‘innocent’, while seme’s are written to be over masculine. It’s really messed up
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…you are completely correct to assume they’re virgins omfg a lot of yaoi is written by Japanese writers and statistically like a quarter of people over 40 there ARE virgins so yeah ur literally right, a lot of this stuff is quite literally just fantasies and really rEALLY innacurate and weird portrayals of relationships
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They have one of the lowest birth rates in the world for a reason, no one there is doing it . I feel that the teeny tiny percentage that are aren’t used to seeing healthy depictions of relationships which I guess is why the cheating culture is so bad, it’s probably also m why in a lot of manga the relationships can sometimes just be..really weird.
I hate semes who sleep around!!!!