Maybe I’m just a bitch but Tak was raping Sanho on a consistent basis, and forcing him b...

nanigurl37 March 8, 2024 12:26 pm

Maybe I’m just a bitch but Tak was raping Sanho on a consistent basis, and forcing him because he was LITERALLY trying to run away. I love humans ability to forgive, but does there ever come a time when it’s just ok not to forgive? How about when they don’t even apologize or even actually acknowledge the wrong doing of their actions. It wasn’t a minor offense. Nor was it once or twice. Fiction or not, rape is most certainly not romantic. The very least he could have done is apologize and admit he was dead wrong for EVERYTHING he put Sanho through.

Responses
    notTexas March 8, 2024 12:53 pm

    Sanho was already somehow in love with Tak.

    zkayla.96 March 8, 2024 3:25 pm
    Sanho was already somehow in love with Tak. notTexas

    You can love a person and they can still do you wrong. What Tak did is not okay, regardless of any kinds of feelings they have for each other.
    Many ppl get raped or sexually abused in 'loving' relationships. 'Love' is often the only thing hindering the victim to leave their situation and save themselves.
    I do understand that their relationship is not that bad but the concept still uplies.

    notTexas March 9, 2024 12:15 am
    You can love a person and they can still do you wrong. What Tak did is not okay, regardless of any kinds of feelings they have for each other. Many ppl get raped or sexually abused in 'loving' relationships. 'L... zkayla.96

    It's not that simple. My friend literally got raped by her ex-boyfriend. Fast forward 8 month later she still make excuses for him because she loves him. Your line of thinking is way too rational for their mindset.

    nanigurl37 March 9, 2024 5:18 am
    It's not that simple. My friend literally got raped by her ex-boyfriend. Fast forward 8 month later she still make excuses for him because she loves him. Your line of thinking is way too rational for their mind... notTexas

    Hi. I wanted to express my opinion here and be a respectful as possible. I am sorry that happened to your friend and I hope they are happy. However, speaking from my own personal feelings. The reason I feel the way I do about Tak is simply whether or not Sanho had feelings for him, his actions were wrong. Sanho literally on multiple occasions attempted to leave their home or avoid retuning as long as possible in order to avoid the coming assault. And there were times Tak would prevent him from doing so and proceed to assault him. Sanho having love for Tak doesn’t change that’s Tak’s actions were deplorable. It doesn’t make it ok. A simple change is behavior without addressing the problem only adds to my disliking the situation. It’s not in the slightest simple, but it does warrant an actual conversation if they were to decide to proceed as a couple in my opinion. But I still wish it wasn’t the case that they get together, oh well. Just along for the ride.