seme practically triggered uke's abandonment trauma, so shit escalated.
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Exactly and the story of their past is still ongoing in raws dk what other shit seme went through coz of uke's selfishness
Exactly! I changed my mind real quick lol. I feel bad for the seme. With his trauma, abandonment issues, and mental state I get why he spiraled with the ukes selfishness and mental games. Like telling the seme that he lacked common sense (while also pointing out his trauma) while he had the common sense and decency to wait then look for his partner after being ignored. Only to find him drinking, still being kind enough to wait outside knowing he’s being ignored then see his partner text him a freaking lie and then having the whole freaking thing turned on him by saying he stalked him and had no common sense? Like what? Dude could’ve at least shot him a text so that he wouldn’t be worried. I mean i get he doesn’t feel serious about it and he’s embarrassed but the 18 year old he’s dating is serious about it so he should consider how he’s feeling. I could literally write forever about this
okay so I take back my initial thoughts like p much everyone else in this comment section. I thought it was going to be the typical ‘uke is dominated/controlled by over-obsessed seme’ but I guess it is not!
I have so many issues with the uke bro. First of all you’re a grown man only with an 18 year old for your own selfish reasons. You like how it feels to be wanted, liked, and validated, not our black haired coo-coo beauty, aight? Secondly, you literally saw our boy GET MORE N MORE INSECURE, you KNOW his abandonment issues/familial issues, you KNOW he struggles with day to day things that seem simple but he was never taught, and you go and make everything worse by lying and flipping everything around onto HIM? Acting like HE’S the problem? It seems to me that a lot of his crazy-ness could have been diminished if the uke just fucking communicated? And like an adult SHOWED him how that stuff usually goes??? The seme waited for him at home like he was asked, he only went out searching after all of his texts and calls were ignored. That’s pretty reasonable to me?? And he didn’t barge in, he waited outside, that’s pretty fucking respectful if you ask me.
So yeah, I kind of fucking understand why shit escalated so much, I understand how our seme got misguided and how his feelings got fucked up and twisted. Obviously he’s psycho, but I wish he could have met someone who could actually love him and not be embarrassed of him. I feel like he’d be a little healthier that way. I guess we’ll see how this plays out (╯°Д °)╯╧╧