
not really to that point lol. Authors also write annoying men, heck they even do more annoying things (even goes as far as rape). Readers don't really see that bc they're reading stories with populated male characters. So if an annoying girl comes up, it's more noticeable. Gender isn't a thing here if I say so myself

If an author makes a guy annoying, it's "part" of the plot but when it a girl who's annoying, "a hidden agenda abt hating girls". But if we make it clear here, authors literally write annoying characters, not dependant on the gender. It boils down on a how a reader interprets it. An annoying bitch slut character is an annoying bitch slut character. There's no gender there.
I'm not saying OP thinks the same, just wanted to point this out since I've been seeing the same argument from diff discussions.
BL authors really be making the readers hate the girls/women. as if continuously throwing yourself at the "hot guy" in your office without having any sort of shame or self respect wasn't enough...they stalk him after being shot down, take pictures without consent AND SEND IT TO THE GROUP CHAT??