Then you've clealry never been in that situation. Yes I agree that she should move on but moving on when your crush likes someone else(regardless of what that person's gender is) is literally one of the hardest things to do. Teenagers, adults even old people find it very hard to move on when they live someone and it hurts when you're not the object of their affection. Moving on is easier said than done.
I’ve been in situations where a dude I’m interested in turns out to be gay and like I said, I move on. It’s an instant switch for me. I don’t hate him, I certainly don’t avoid him, my mind just responds logically and I no longer view him as a possibility. Same thing happens when I find out a dude has a girlfriend or he turns out to be sexist, etc. Whatever romantic interest I had in the guy just goes away.
And to try and be forceful towards a person just because they’re incapable of moving on and are hurt that their crush does not reciprocate their feelings is plain toxic and disrespectful.
It does not matter how hurt a person is over their love fantasy crumbling down after being struck with reality, they can’t just use that as a justification for horrendous actions. Either cope sanely and move on or be emotional/crazy and face legal repercussions.
true, i agree, it’s okay to take time to move on but miss girl literally so delusional? the engagement is annulled so factly speaking her actions of trying to come in between a couple is invalid. it’s okay to not be fine and not accept the situation because yes, it’s hard to move on especially since in her pov, things are going so well but meeting the mc and literally forcing money on him to break up and not giving him choice or time to refuse is where i draw the line. honestly, cringe
but honestly though at this point i don’t think the only reason she’s acting this way is because of her long time crush factor. i think if mc were a girl she’d find it easier to move on but because the mc is a man, i think it hurt her pride more than it should like “he’s leaving me for a man?” kinda thing. so i think her pride being hurt is also a main factor
Not her throwing a tantrum cause her long time crush is in love with a dude. Ik people like this exist irl but it’s still irritating. Personally if I like a dude and he turns out to be gay, I move the fuuuuuck on.