Yeah like midnight reader said sex is something that should happen when both parties are both in their right mind with the ability to consent. You can tell that even if he was “enjoying it” it was likely just a natural reaction to stimulation and the fact he felt asleep right after the act was likely due to the fact he was drunk
That kind of argument is the exactly the same rapists use to blame the victims when they're intoxicated.
When you're not fully conscious you don't understand exactly what's happening and the consequences are only felted afterwards. That's why guys spike girls drinks to be "easier" to rape and blame them claiming they consented and enjoyed.
Make no mistake, even if the victims feel physical pleasure, it's still rape, sometimes the psychological damage is even bigger when that's the case. Many victims don't press charges because they also blame themselves.
If they talked about it previously and gave consent, it's totally ok.
Sadly, most people, specially men, don't know/don't care to know much about rape culture precisely because we live in a male oriented society.
It took me many years after my adulthood to actually start to understand the subject even though we should learn about it at school when we're teens in order to not commit any kind of sexual assault unknowingly.
So I'm glad the community see the issue and discuss it.
I totally understand understand that, I'm always pointing that out to my male friends when the topic arrives, most are stubborn and always make excuses for they problematic behavior. Myself included for most of my life.
I have many female friends and it's thanks to them that I started to actually learn about the subject, it's horrifying how almost every single one of them had some past experiences, some terrible and traumatic ones.
We desperately need to educate people.
Let’s be so fucking serious what he did was rape it doesn’t matter if they are dating he explicitly fucked him while he was asleep and he couldn’t consent, he did this because he felt restless when he could’ve talked to him but he didn’t? I’d like to pretend these eps never happened ╥﹏╥