Ughhh... One side is 'too kind' to set boundaries and the other side is too stubborn to co...

Zwat February 15, 2024 11:46 am

Ughhh... One side is 'too kind' to set boundaries and the other side is too stubborn to communicate in a deeper level. It's so frustrating.
But Shizuma deff more in the wrong. Like with the amount of times he has seen Minato got jealous you would think he'd try to change. Buddy, you're in a relationship, it's not something to gloss over casually(╯°Д °)╯╧╧

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    Jazzin February 15, 2024 11:54 am

    I mean he just smiled at someone because he was finally acknowledged by his boss. I dont know anyone who wouldnt be happy with that. He’s not a mind reader so putting him on a guessing game on what he did “wrong” is just unfair. Sure, he’s in a relationship but BOTH sides need to communicate.

    Zwat February 15, 2024 12:11 pm
    I mean he just smiled at someone because he was finally acknowledged by his boss. I dont know anyone who wouldnt be happy with that. He’s not a mind reader so putting him on a guessing game on what he did “... Jazzin

    Like I said, both are in the wrong. In earlier chapters, Shizuma realizes and sees that Minato is a jealous person. I'm not siding with Minato cause he clearly need to communicate but Shizuma isn't taking it seriously either. Minato should tell him that he's uncomfortable with Shizuma's action? He expressed it with his actions and Shizuma acknowledge it. BOTH aren't mind reader but with previous incident, the smart Shizuma should realize at least a little how his actions made Minato jealous. Minato got childhood trauma and I'm not using that as a shield to justify his actions but it sure as hell not easy to communicate properly when certain communication is the one to destroy his family. (I speak this from experience as my 'communication' causes my aunt to unalive herself. I grew afraid of communication having to learn from scratch what 'communication' is good and bad)
    But then again, everyone has their own opinions and priority in a relationship

    Jazzin February 15, 2024 1:02 pm

    In what world is smiling at someone romantic? How would Shizuka know that would trigger Minato into his sulk. Is he just to keep his face blank everytime he’s happy? It wouldve been different if he was holding the boss’ hand or whatever but he was literally just smiling. Sure, minato has issues because of his parents but that’s not Minato’s fault so he shouldnt be projecting them to Minato. Shizuka needs therapy

    Zwat February 16, 2024 1:22 am

    Yeah man, like I said. Everyone has their own opinion and priority on relationship. What's wrong for me isn't what's wrong for you. Maybe because of my trauma, I have different priority in a relationship than you. Your point is valid but I think mine are too.
    Also I think you got the names kinda mixed by the end there