what the hell?
Fuckoff
I understand. I feel the same way but I realized she is not on life support. You cannot pull the plug. They are showing their ignorance and cruelty.
Who are ‘they’? You mean the doctors? I understand if people meant for the grandma to pass so that she is free from the pain but im mad at the one who wants her dead so the story could go on and like??? Grandma is the closest family member to dan, of course he doesn’t want her to go. Especially when she’s all he has.
First I said I understood and I feel the same way. I have the same opinion.
If I am telling you I felt the same way with the op's topic of pulling the plug. The comment about pulling the plug doesn't make sense because she is not on life support. The op is showing their ignorance and cruelty. I don't know why you thought I meant the doctors.
ur so real for this i laughed so hard. im sorry people cant take a joke about a fantasy meemaw taking off from the life airline
Correction. The op and others that say that is showing their ignorance and cruelty.
I meant they as a group.
It's not abt the fact that she's not real, I think the author created the scenario so people would relate emotionally. You guys are js beinh weird and overly dramatic abt her dying and come off as annoying and immature
I know you commented to Levipleasecallmeback but ir does seem like your message was to all.
It's not abt the fact that she's not real nor its about her dying. Yes she created the scenario so people would relate emotionally. The problem is laughing and make "jokes" for her to die. It is sadistic. You know deriving pleasure from inflicting pain, suffering, or humiliation on others. The ones standing against it, is out of compassion and may have been there in real life because she wrote it so people would relate emotionally. People have the right to be offend by the sadistic nature of this "joke". They are not annoying or immature. If anyone is annoying and immature it is the ones being sadistic for not taking into consideration how this scenario will affect people or they know how it would and wanted to stir up drama.
It is about the sadistic and heartless comments vs people with compassion and empathy. That in it self is not annoying or immature. They have morals.
It is weird about making this overly dramatic and about her dying. It is like gaslighting and dismissing the sadistic nature of this. If so, that is what is annoying and lacking compassion.
Please remember I am not sure who you meant it to and my last sentence is a conditional statement. If it not than my comment does not apply
And I said "it is like" IF you meant it a different way, it does not apply. Only in that pov does that apply. I do hope you meant something different.
wishin death upon a fictional grandma doesnt indicate maturity level or emotional intelligence. what people relate to is the dying family member and if they have cancer… not the fact they’re in a toxic situationship with an abusive, narcissistic celebrity who rapes him constantly- yet dan still found a way to love him. the jokes are a mockery of this trope (rich, horrible top that saves debt riddled bottom with unwavering kindness) and if you’re not making the connection that’s a personal trigger yall need to handle
i find you guys the weird and overdramatic ones for inserting yourselves into a conversation that clearly wasn’t directed towards you and your situations, then found a way to be offended. no one is directing these feelings towards real family members
lol empowered since you blocked me
you guys do not have more compassion or empathy just because you want a fictional grandma to stay alive and believe a joke reflects how someone feels about this entire situation in reality. nor does it make you morally superior and emotionally intelligent if you relate to dan’s grandma and her battle with cancer. this story is not meant to be a self insert, even if you connect with him. you may relate on a surface level but not when he’s getting pimped out by an abusive and selfish celebrity, who rapes him constantly then uses his grandmas treatment and his debt as leverage for sexual and professional services
what i find annoying and overdramatic is how you guys turned this into a “what-about-me” conversation believing all the jokes were directed towards you when they weren’t. saying that this joke is sadistic in nature is so fallacious?? because again you’re claiming this joke applies to every and all people with a real dying family members and that wishing death on a fictional person is somehow inflicting pain on others… when dan DOESNT EXIST! he’s not a medium for your feelings and you guys need to learn when to separate the art from yourself
yall have big feelings that you need to work through. youre allowed to feel a certain type of way about these jokes but it doesn’t mean the criticism you have about them are valid and reflect the type of person you are
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Ahh so we ARE on the same side. Sorry my english comprehension must’ve been so bad that I didn’t get what you meant lmao
Yes. We are. Your English comprehension is good. I need to be more mindful and try to remember that not everyone is a native English speaker. My friends and I try to keep that in mind. We try to write without slang and Jaron. We also try to make it more standard English for everyone. I can see what happened there. I need to use different words instead of they.
omgggg pull the plug already