My problem with Ian...

I understand Ian being torn between the two, but I feel like he's leading Jo on, sleeping with both. (And I don't even like Jo, I prefer TJ) I know he's not "really" in a relationship with TJ or Jo, but they both obviously have expectations from him. Jo obviously want a relationship. With TJ, it's more complicated, but TJ planned his future (ex. The house) with Ian in mind... It's safe to say, he wants Ian in his life in the future still... It's just that it's not really possible since Ian isn't part of the group anymore and they're more like sex buddies who won't acknowledge they both want more because It's not compatible with their own goal outside of the relationship.

I like Ian and TJ relationship because I am on the edge of my seat wondering if or when they will let go of the other, but Ian is really starting to bother me... And Jo by association.

Ian keeps going around sleeping with both, living his best life getting the best of both world... He never commit to anything. We're 40 chapters in and I see no development from Ian regarding that. He's still going to sleep with TJ, then come back to Jo for a more "vanilla" relationship. I prefer TJ simply because I like their chemistry better, but Jo is a lot better/safer choice if Ian truly wants out... Jo did nothing wrong. He's a good guy being led on and fucked over by his love interest. It also paints Ian in a bad light because now instead of being someone who gets into casual sex with other men and TJ; he is someone who engage in sex with Jo multiple times and goes out with him, knowing full well Jo wants a relationship while still going to TJ whenever he can.

Feels bad for Jo man.