I agree with all of you, THAT'S RAPE.

Disappointed February 7, 2024 7:53 am

As a guy, I can say a lot of men fantasizes waking up to their partners blowing them and other sexual actions. And I think that's totally fine if there's prior consent.
Regrettably, the view most men have about rape isn't the same women have, because men don't live with that kind of fear, it's one of a society's cancer, if you ask me. I also wonder if asians might have a slightly different view.
It's different from when Juwon did because he legit thought he was dreaming, so he had no intention, even though it's also wrong.
I'm also reall tired about rape scenes in BL...
I get that he's drunk and desperate, but c'mon, just wake your man up, it's not that hard... (ノಠ益ಠ)ノ

Responses
    Nekoma February 7, 2024 9:48 am

    Totally agree! My bf told me he loves to wake up like that, but he told me that before I ever did that and I think that’s a difference in real life. I would never do something to someone while he is asleep if we didn’t talked about it before and so should be it for everyone…

    Chunlee February 7, 2024 11:15 am

    yeah it's called somno. which is cool IF you have consent from your partner before hand. bottom did not get consent and that's why it's rape.