You don’t really question anyone’s family business bro just give them some time

I don't know what relationships you've been in but it's normal to inquire. When you don't doesn't really show that you care.

Uhhhh tbh I’m Asian and it’s kinda an unspoken thing here tho, sometimes you take the hint and back off, most people don’t feel comfortable finding ways to convey their issues (especially family issues), much more complex than just simply “inquiring”, you can’t just force someone to open up when they’re not ready for that bro

Another example of this is you don’t immediately say things like don’t cry or why r u crying when someone is crying you let them calm down first right?

Uhhh and I think he dropped enough “hints” about missing home and can’t talk about supposed family related stuffs (Which is totally legit because if he’s not faithful then the reasons would be a lot more detailed, personally I’m not really fond of informing people about family members passing away too and they totally understand) so that’s pretty awkward to keep insisting and asking backhanded things that would probably end up like in the manga (Totally unnecessary fight in my opinion)

I mean yeah let then calm down first, but there's a reason that they're choosing each other to be/ become their special person. I'm an American national and on average you comfort and ask what happens, yeah they can say they're not ready to talk but the act of showing that compassion is caring because who wants to see their other half in turmoil? No, he doesn't have to ask a bunch of times. It's different from when a complete stranger or vague acquaintance is being nosy. It's because they're lovers or lovers to be that you're concerned about the other. It's your right and if not what makes you different than a low level friend?

I think this is a difference of cultures. Recently a African woman posted a remembrance picture of a another African woman influencer and vaguely told the world that she died. We inquired what happened to her and she got angry and said it was rude to ask??? But she shared that this influence died to the whole world of which other people knew her but the people were also startled at the info but then offended for her sharing and not explaining. So she got a lot of back lash is normal to inquire to show you care.

Yes it’s complicated and if you can smell the arguments from just asking then most people would back off here, tbh I don’t really see what’s wrong with the way he’s talking to the uke but just for the dramatic effect they have to make a questionable big fight out of it lol

I mean it’s family stuffs so most people would feel uncomfortable talking about it so as not to make the mood go awry (and mostly unnecessary), i don’t even know why i’m explaining this but it’s just how it is here, I only re read this once more just to reply because this was going into a weird direction bro
I’m not saying what you said is wrong but i think everyone deserves a right to not yet disclose their private problems on the spot (they were having fun all day so it’s not like he’s shutting himself from the uke or sth), even at the start I said give him some time he gave away enough hints because he couldn’t catch a break honestly and was hurt with the way the uke was asking, I think it’s just poor timing and sensibility as you can see them apologizing to each other at the end?
I honestly think the angst was kind of unnecessary because I can totally see the hints he is dropping

And rather than asking a bunch of times, truly you have to look and see when is the right time to have that conversation ^^

Uhhh

Fair enough. (=・ω・=)