I started off disliking a lot of Subin's trait but now, I just find it so frustrating watc...

I started off disliking a lot of Subin's trait but now, I just find it so frustrating watching people not understand him. I feel like so many of these comments are so ??? like Jun deserves better but so does Subin if that's the case. If you think they are incompatible it's not just because of Subin. Jun is lacking in so many areas too. Subin has much more nuance and a way better understanding of his own emotions (whilst being quite volatile/reactive out of the two), Jun on the other hand tends to hide under a mask. They are both insecure in their own way but Jun suppresses it to the point he starts letting them fester and they become a huge deal. I feel it's really unfair how so many people only blame one party for all this misunderstandings. I love Jun but I am not blind. I have enough critical thinking to understand the reason they are really fighting is not just Subin not saying "I love you" back easily. It's easy to blame Subin but really its not fair.

Maybe it's also because I've read the raws and from what I understood, Jun is a frustrating lover too. I guess with gaps in their age comes gaps in mentality or perspectives. But I am not gonna throw either one under the bus and say one deserves better.
They both deserve better, better versions of each other. Please fuckin communicate.