everyone complaining abt characters meant to be insecure are driving me nuts

potato soup January 25, 2024 6:27 am

does anyone else get really tired of seeing all the comments lambasting characters thatre literally just insecure or some shit? like im so autistic i can hardly take a theme out of any media rnd even i know this shit
like miscommunication is such an overused trope and its annoying, whatever we all agree on that but its a real ass thing that happens!! and when authors actually GIVE a reason for the miscommunication (take the bbgirl in my pfp for example, hes so insecure bc ash is his first real relationship + literally 0 social skills) it makes sense and is more realistic than other weirdass shit authors pull. ESPECIALLY WHEN THESE CHARACTERS ARE FUCKING TEENAGERS. WHOLE TEENAGERS IN HIGHSCHOOL. do yall not remember how shitty that time was????

its so annoying hiw people will type away, basically harassing a whole drawing without even considering that the character.... has a personality and shit..??? literally saw someone saying dan kim needs to stand up for himself to horse-face as if he wouldnt be beaten and/or thrown out to the curb.

man this shit just annoys the fuck out of me like all these characters that have issues with self-esteem and communication and shit have those issues because authors give them really fucked up childhoods/backstories. (AGAIN TAKE LYLE AS AN EXAMPLE I DONT THINK BRO EVEN WENT TO A PRIVATE SCHOOL P SURE HE WAS HOMESCHOOLED. LIKE WHAT DO YOU EXPECT FROM HIM AFTER SPENDING 33 YEARS WITH A FAMILY THATS EXTREMELY EMOTIONALLY DETACHED AND HAVING GROWN UP KNOWING HE WAS JUST A TOOL???? FOR HIM TO MAGICALLY BE ABLE TO TALK ABOUT THINGS OPENLY JUST BECAUSE ITS ASH??? is it obv that in particular i really hate the hate to lyle being scarid to talk abt things)

anyways idk i just needed to yell out ento the endlessness of the internet ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~ and if someone agrees and finds this then epic woohoo
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Responses
    Byygvy January 25, 2024 6:35 am

    YES OMG everyone is so quick to hate and judge a character forgetting that people are literally supposed to be complex and have different personalities!! It irks me sm when people hate on “doormat” or pushover/shy characters when in reality their actions are perfectly rational and they’re justified in feeling that way (/TДT)/

    potato soup January 25, 2024 6:40 am
    YES OMG everyone is so quick to hate and judge a character forgetting that people are literally supposed to be complex and have different personalities!! It irks me sm when people hate on “doormat” or pusho... Byygvy

    fr like cmon do people not at least TRY and understand a characters perspective every once in awhileヽ(`Д´)ノ
    like deadass im absolute shit at social cues and all that jazz but even my autistic ass can tell that characters are meant to have an individual perspective and thought process ffs