Firstly yes jaekung is an abusive bully etc etc don't get me wrong but dan does this constantly he thinks the only way he can express love or be appreciated is by feeling pain and forcing himself to endure hardship. That's how he showed love to his grandmother and he's doing it again now with his r*pist. Unfortunately he needs to really confront with the fact that he feels like he only gets appreciation or noticed by anyone if he is punishing himself. No i dont think he did anything to warrant abuse I'm just saying that he needs to stand up for his needs and learn what healthy and sustainable love looks like and pushing your health mental and physical to death is not it. Like he overworked and lost sleep and got hurt and skipped meals just to buy a key ring cuz that's all he knows how to do, to endure and endure and hope someone will notice.
Firstly yes jaekung is an abusive bully etc etc don't get me wrong but dan does this constantly he thinks the only way he can express love or be appreciated is by feeling pain and forcing himself to endure hardship. That's how he showed love to his grandmother and he's doing it again now with his r*pist. Unfortunately he needs to really confront with the fact that he feels like he only gets appreciation or noticed by anyone if he is punishing himself. No i dont think he did anything to warrant abuse I'm just saying that he needs to stand up for his needs and learn what healthy and sustainable love looks like and pushing your health mental and physical to death is not it. Like he overworked and lost sleep and got hurt and skipped meals just to buy a key ring cuz that's all he knows how to do, to endure and endure and hope someone will notice.