ok i'm not justifying seo an's behavior but you can't really expect a full healthy relationship with two people who have deep rooted insecurities and traumas, do you??? they had a tough upbringing, that's why they have flaws and that's why they fuck up sometimes. that's just realistic to their character. i mean, just because he found someone he loves doesn't mean it's granted he'd change and be a green flag overnight.
when you expect them to act perfectly and stable, then you're missing out on why the story was made in the first place. they met under circumstances where they'd heal each other, it's a process so they're bound to hurt the other in some instances along the way.
ok i'm not justifying seo an's behavior but you can't really expect a full healthy relationship with two people who have deep rooted insecurities and traumas, do you??? they had a tough upbringing, that's why they have flaws and that's why they fuck up sometimes. that's just realistic to their character. i mean, just because he found someone he loves doesn't mean it's granted he'd change and be a green flag overnight.
when you expect them to act perfectly and stable, then you're missing out on why the story was made in the first place. they met under circumstances where they'd heal each other, it's a process so they're bound to hurt the other in some instances along the way.