probably not, they most likely had their first night after marriage but obviously they didn't love each other and kisses usually entail that. he's only kissing her now because he hates that there is a possibility of her belonging to someone else, it's kind of like marking territory. like the asshat he is
It said in the beginning that she fell in love with him, and was ignored by him when she lost her powers. Obviously he didn't love her, but I think he pretended to like her in the beginning to gain a strong mage? Having sex without kissing at all is still a bit weird then.
Didn't he seduce her, leading her to become pregnant? Did they really just slap meat and not kiss before now?