The whole top and bottom thing is gay relationships is just forcing hetero dynamics on them. We do it in fiction to have traditional romance story lines but that's not real life.
Anal is in fact probably the most common way of having intercourse among gay men and I think that verses are not the majority lol so yes tops and bottoms do exist in real life what are you on
i think there are definitely stereotypes perpetuated by bl characters that are exaggerated but in terms of the sex itself tops and bottoms are a real thing. ofc in these stories bottom usually means submissive and top is dominant which isn’t always true and thats where i agree w u
The whole top and bottom thing is gay relationships is just forcing hetero dynamics on them. We do it in fiction to have traditional romance story lines but that's not real life.