No, because you're correct I don't understand how people blame everything on Subin, and then saying he's immature when he clearly express everything. He's a bit overwhelming sometimes but Jun never tried to work with him properly. Everything is bottled up like he's expecting some kind of psychic communication. Whenever it matters to Subin, Jun just becomes condescending, brushes the issue off by backing off, belittles Subin, etc. He's actually the tiring one in this relationship. Especially since he's the one with a mother who's pressuring him to get married. At this point, I really genuinely just want happiness for Subin.
Y’all… I’m begging you to re-read this work. Lol at what point do you see your lover and his crush of a lifetime chatting and what looks reminiscing without seeing red lol
And Subin isn’t a child.. he could defend and be proactive about his uneasiness and his association with his boo and how that conflicts with work…
Like bffr y’all would be crying if your supposed bf hid under the table to try to avoid discussion? Also when has Subin ever interrogated his responses with Jun or even with Subin? It’s all been head games with him too..
Put the brain bucket down and see that this isn’t black and white as y’all claim it to be lol
So, What about that chatting point? that is why they need to comunication. There's nothing wrong with being jealous, what's wrong is when he becomes insecure about his feelings. Even though it's as simple as asking, "what's wrong? why?" and carry out two-way communication. In a relationship there are two people, so why should communication really be cut off?
Age is just a number, maturity is not measured by numbers, but by way of thinking. many factors can influence it. It can change, but it still needs support. From the start, Kang Jun has been dating someone who is clearly mentally immature. Here I emphasize that Kang Jun did not play his role as an adult figure well. From season one, I thought he would be someone who would balance Subin. But Season 2 looks like a complete mess.
So, it's true that Subin avoids talking, but think again why? because when he tried to invite Kang Jun to communicate, the door was closed by Kang Jun. I thought this was described in the previous chapter, or I misinterpreted it as Subin's way of trying to communicate with Kang Jun?
Jun was always like that,cold,but he doesnt mean bad when he says those things. Its what he believes would help. He is that way and always was. Its not news he is bad at speaking up about his feelings. If subin doesnt like that,its fine. You really cant change someone without destroying what they are.
You forget how Subin always says he thinks of the other guy,how he never forgot him,how he cant stay with him cause he is afraid he will see how shaken he still is by him? You cant see how that is the problem,the gap in their relationship?
The fact he is still thinking of someone else?
Subin can break up with Jun….like is he forced to be with him? And the fact he threatens to breakup at any fight,i hate that. He is abusive emotionally
Im more surprised you find it normal how he wants someone else while in relationship,for all 5 years
Agree,i dont know why people hate Jun. He is literally a rebound for Subin. I feel like Subin always reminds him he isnt the one he wanted.
I know subin still immature at his 26. I have a valid reason to blame him for not trying anything become a little more mature. But, I'm more angry at Kang Jun, because he knows Subin is immature but did not guide him at all to practice how to communicate between partners. instead kept everything in his own mind. even though he knows, their relationship is currently fragile.
when Subin tries to dig in "hey, looks like we don't like each other anymore." Kang Jun didn't even try to communicate. When asked "do you really like me?" what answer is expected. Meanwhile, from the start, Subin had admitted that their relationship was starting to get boring.