You need to make a decision, then communicate what you want to the dude you're in a thing with and if they can't give you what you need you gotta leave babe. Don't wait around hoping they'll change their mind, remember that the more time and energy you give to someone who can't say they want you is energy taken away from looking for the right person for you. There's a meme that sums up situationships pretty well: a situationship is only a situationship to you, too the other person it's nothing
The worst part is that I know and understand this completely… but I’m a whole ass circus and like him so much that I haven’t been able to do it in case we start dating. Like he told me his family and friends think we’re dating and I was like “my family as well but nothing has happened so” then he avoided the topic…
Anyway thx a lot for your support
Istg if he doesn't make up his mind I will throw hands. I mean I understand if a relationship sounds like a big step but if it already feels like one then he shouldnt be afraid of making it official! And it's totally valid to ask him about it. He is an ass if he doesn't like you anymore for just communcating your thoughts.
Even tho your reply to someone else, but its a good advice for my situation too
I need an update on this. How is it going?
I'm like the nosy neighbour during school vacation
It was dragging for too long and it seemed he wasn’t ready to commit so I ended it (back in march)
I still see him around campus from time to time since we go to the same university but it’s not as awkward as I thought it’d be. Still sad about it tho cuz I really liked him lmao
It happens. I had one of these back in December and discovered he was lying through every hole on his body. We don't talk anymore. Now due to life circumstances I'm moving to his college duo to having to move cities.....it's ridiculous.
It's a lesson and an experience. You will eventually like someone else. It's okay! things like these take time ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
Everyone around me is either dating or getting married and I’m in a situationship where I have no idea if the dude wants to be in a serious relationship or not. And specials/stories like these make my heart melt and I feel even more jealous BRO I WANT A SWEET AND STABLE RELATIONSHIP IS IT TOO MUCH TO ASK