Stories with an abuser x abused always pisses me off. Of course the abused will forgive everything and never go to therapy! Apparently they lived happily after, where Jae still spills his drink over Dan’s head, because he’s mad! :D And the characters aren’t even interesting nor good written. It’s a copy paste from the other 500 Yaoi stories with the same plot. Sad, because I never read a story with a Therapist like Dan (forgot the name) x the boxer. What a waste.
NO FRR I was like "So understanding consent is some uwu he's so hot omg he's never cared for me like this before" LIKE? They're glamorizing him and making him seem like he's all that for NOT raping him for once. Isfg I don't get how delulu and dumb some people have to be to not understand how fucked up that is.. I really hope j shit goes to jail...
"Besides from that, if read properly there is no rape in Jinx. It is sexual assault, sexual coercion, and abuse."
"Besides from that" removed what happened in chapter 44.
Dan has been taking advantage of Jaekyung.
Sexual coercion counts as sexual assault.
If someone used manipulation and only was able to touch the person before the person said no or walks away, how is that rape?
Their first time Jaekyung made the threat then told him to go home. Dan then decided to bite the bullet for money and not the threat. In chapters 7-8 Jaekyung did use manipulation but Dan was not saying no to sex. As it was shown to you in DM, Dan slowly caved because he wanted to have sex. Dan is not the victim you make him out to be.
It has elements of sexual coercion but Jaekyung's coercion was not the deciding factor when you understand Dan.
Dan agreed to this, he is 29 years old. What are you missing that others have seen and did not share? If you remember while you got one's reply, you did not get the second one that would explain the hint from the first one.
They noticed it was the majority of haters calling it rape.
"If Jaekyung is drunk- Dan raped him because Jaekyung can’t consent.
If Jaekyung is not drunk - Dan is willing to take advantage of him (thinking he is drunk."
If - conditional statements. ^
IF Jaekyung is drunk and is okay with having sex afterwards. It is not rape.
If Jaekyung is drunk and is not okay with having sex afterwards. It is rape.
IF jaekyung is drunk he can't legally consent.
Yes, a person can be that drunk after that amount.
Is he drunk is the question but he is not sober due to the red around his eyes. He could be faking the pain in the head but that alcoholic could have started a migraine.
To be honest, the moment he asked for dan’s consent and was much “kinder” I knew he was really drunk. But I also am sure they both are taking advantage of each other. Like the moment he asked Dan to be his sex partner, if I remember correctly, he knew about his situation. So he took advantage of it and offered a deal Dan couldn’t “refuse”. I know he could, but looking at the situation again, it is understandable he accepted. But I still see this as rape, like in this chapter but with reversed roles. :( sorry if I came rude in my last reply!
I had to think about how to respond to you and I had a reply and closed the tab as I was going back for information.
"To be honest, the moment he asked for dan’s consent and was much “kinder” I knew he was really drunk."
That interpretation (he is drunk) is logical. There is support. Why the "" around kinder? Without this chapter, that is how we suspected him to act with the hints of his real personality. We did not think she would give so much.
On the under hand, the interpretation that he is tipsy but pretending to be worse is logical too. We need more chapters to know to confirm. I can write an essay for both interpretations but I will have more support for this interpretation in this paragraph.
So, if this is the right interpretation, he was asking something else when he was asked for "consent". If you are open I can explain this interpretation. However, the interpretation that he is sober is not accurate. The Soju is affecting him. He can't fake the red around his eyes while he could fake having headaches, I think that could be real.
"But I also am sure they both are taking advantage of each other. Like the moment he asked Dan to be his sex partner, if I remember correctly, he knew about his situation."
Jaekyung wanted Dan and he was desperate to have Dan to where he would do anything for him. He went all high-school girl when they are desperate for a guy to call them. He called Dan over 57 times in that week. (Kim Dan (15) ; Kim Dan (22), Kim Dan (8), Kim Dan (11). Jaekyung made the offer to work as his PT and have a transactional partnership. in chapter 5. He learned about Dan's situation afterward. Jaekyung knew nothing about loan sharks or Dan's grandma until after the fact.
There are many haters for this story and they try to make Jaekyung worse than he is. They post fake details and people believe those fake details. These fake details don't dictate the real story.
" So he took advantage of it and offered a deal Dan couldn’t “refuse”."
Dan avoided his phone calls for a week. When Dan went to him after learning something devasting about his grandma, he bargained the terms meaning he had to reject/refuse the initial offer.
Without that devasting new he may or may not accepted that but when you learn more about Dan and his feelings that many ignore, he may had.
" But I still see this as rape, like in this chapter but with reversed roles. :( sorry if I came rude in my last reply! "
That is your opinion and you can view that way. One day i hope you can be open to the real story and understand this is not rape.
Dan is tipsy too. It really depends on how Jaekyung handles it and that does determines whether to label it as rape or not. If it is the second interpretation it is not rape. However, It shows Dan is willing to take advantage in bed with a "drunken" Jeakyung. He is not the victim people make him out to be.
Do you want to know something they say?
This is the not source I read it from but I think I know the source. I do believe he explain it a little differently.
The real problem with using the conditional if in an apology is that you are putting your ego ahead of another person's pain. https://www.forbes.com/sites/johnbaldoni/2022/02/08/never-say-if-when-you-apologize/?sh=5d956008551d
with the original source, I think he says it means you are avoiding taking responsibility.
Since I read that years ago. I noticed I did make apologies with that conditional if statement. It seems that has become common or natural to everyone and don't take on these means but I make sure I don't write with conditional if statement when making an apology.
They both like taking advantage of eachother, they are perfect for eachother <3
blud deadass got praised for taking no as an answer
Srsly tho; dan is so delusional. He is in a toxic relationship with that man. He just got love-bombed so he will probably expect to "change" jae up to make him his boyfriend. Which will not happen; since jae is a sociopathic narc who will never be able to love anyone but himself.
Jae is like that ex you remember every chrismas since he screamed at you for 4 hours straight that time for getting him the "wrong gift"
Jae is like the dude you talk about to your therapist 6 years later after you finally break up
Jae is like that boyfriend that tells you how fat you are and orders you salad on you date, but then he proposes to you right after
No way in hell this story would end with him and dan being together and living "happily ever after"
I can see them dating for a few but then breaking up since jae cant stop riding his own dick, and then dan going to therapy to work that shit through.
Dont get me wrong; toxic stories are fire, but this isnt even toxic this is chemical waste, this is trash, this is pollution. This story is so bad (writing wise) the only redeeming aspect of it is the GORGEOUS art (I am sorry but i am an art whore