I'm assuming that everything was delayed because of the war. All young men were basically sent to their deaths or trauma, marriage was off the table until she turned 22. A lot of women worked as nurses and contributed to the war effort too so it's possible she worked? Or she just sold her family assets like she suggested in the 2nd time loop.
her father had gone bankrupt in the first life when she was 17 but i think they sold off their house and assets or smth, and she probably worked to pay it off. With the war going on, men were off to fight so they couldn’t possibly find someone for her to marry, so her marriage was probably delayed. In the second life, she tells her father not to invest but he does so anyways (i think), causing a debt and he doesn’t wanna sell of his assets. Since hes not dead, she can sell it anyways or work because her father would oppose so only option is marriage.
If someone understood the timeline can you explain it? Because to me it doesn't make sense, like FL married ML after the war which mean that he father should have died around that time, but in the 2nd life we are shown that her father went bankrupt when she is 17 before the war start.
So how does this work? Because in the 1st life if her father died when she was 17 she should have married asap since she didn't have anything, only debt, but she only married after the war so how did she survive for the years she was unmarried??? Can someone explain it? Is it just a plot hole?