I do see where you’re coming from but lowkey as long as it doesnt get out hand and starts very obv affecting their relationship in a negative way its not really a problem imo
But it literally is affecting their relationship in a negative way, hes making his partner change for him in a really bad way this is most defiantly affecting their relationship AND them especially woowon.
But it is starting to get out of hand tho. Just in the recent chapter, woowon literally does not feel comfortable with seo an's advances. Not only seo an wants him to change but he is also taking control of him even in this situation
Well you see…imo this is tagged a Drama…so there is gonna be drama. Is it bordering toxic? Yes. But is that wat drama inherently is? Yes. I mean, imo, think about a story that has no hardships along the way. It would be boring. Does this mean I want this to happen in my relationship and anyone else’s? No. Doesn’t this mean I want to just read a story without ppl complaining 24/7? Yes. Look p, I get it, u are allowed to like and dislike wat u want, so am I. But sometimes I think no one realizes all these stories are works of fiction, it’s supposed to get u thinking and feeling things. Before I read these comments I was enjoying the story and art. But some ppl really love to criticize every little thing thinking they can do better (not that that’s wat u think but that’s what a lot of ppl give off). Idk man maybe it’s just me but stories are stories…fiction…never gonna be real. I think one of the BIGGEST things no one ever realizes is drama is almost always gonna be toxic. This wasn’t tagged a ‘fluffy’ or ‘cute’ story. Y’all assumed it was just cuz the beginning was sweet. Ppl have their ups and downs in relationships, some downs being more toxic than others. Drama is defined as “a form of performance that involves conflicts, emotions, and the betrayal of human experiences through dialogue and action.” Key word is conflict. Another definition “ a category or genre of narrative fiction intended to be more serious than humorous in tone.” Look I know I’m rambling at this point but EVERY SINGLE STORY I read on here has negativity about how the author writes or how the artist draws. Again I get we all get to express our opinions but damn…just don’t read the story if u don’t like it. I see ppl just commenting “dropped”…like ok u didn’t like it but no reason to comment it. I’m so sorry some of these things don’t even apply to the original comment I’m responding to but I just had to get this off my chest . Have a good day yall
Seoan was also talking about forcing Woowon to change so he can stand by him, plus making plans for them to move when he hasn't brought it up with Woowon. He's definitely becoming more controlling.
I ain't reading all dat(I did)
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~ This whole essay you wrote doesn't even make any sense. You said that just cuz it's tagged 'drama' people should EXPECT toxicity??? WHAT??
And you were basically saying just cuz it was sweet at the beginning, I should not complain when it gets toxic cuz it was never tagged "fluffy"???
You're literally just trying to normalize toxic relationships in manhwa and stop people from complaining about them. Are you insane or no??
~Bl fans trying not to normalize toxicity and expecting everyone else to be comfortable with said toxicity challenge: IMPOSSIBLE.
"If you don't like it drop it" If you have every right to express your love for this, others ALSO have every right expressing their dissatisfaction with things they find uncomfortable. EVEN IF ITS FICTION. Stop getting mad cuz of that. it's weird.
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Also, all I did was point out how their relationship isnt all as peaches and rainbows as everyone is making it to be. People are defending Seo-an's words and actions, all I said was that their relationship isnt healthy right now.
Me personally, I'm fine with a little toxicity; and unlike you, I understand when some people don't like it especially when they expect something healthy. What I don't like it when people LIE about how unhealthy a relationship is being, especially when its this obvious. that's why I made the comment.
Dawg I do understand. And yes I’m insane. And I jus think y’all take things too seriously.
And did u not read the part where I said not all of what I said applied to u?? Apparently not. But my point is ur not even letting the main couple talk out their problems. Ur assuming it’s going down a whole toxic path, like let the story play out. I also said ppl have a right to say what they wanna say. U clearly didn’t read all of it or at least u didn’t comprehend all I said. I’m not normalizing toxicity, and even if I was, it’s a story, plain and simple. I also feel that u aren’t rlly taking into consideration that woo won isn’t changing for him or anything yet. These are seoans thoughts, we all have bad thoughts but that doesn’t mean they are going to be put into action. I mean it might, but let them work it out. And yes I understand y ppl don’t like it, I didn’t say I don’t. But yes it is a simple as don’t read it if u don’t like it, there are plenty of stories on here I have quit reading cuz they are not my cup of tea. also ur the one getting mad and sensitive lmao. Ur like rlly defensive
The way Seo-an talks about their relationship is wierd asf.(chap 59 &60)
He tells Woo-won that he must be the most important person in his life, likes to talk about 'training' Woo-won, saying shit like "I SHOULD HAVE COME FIRST!", and he even says he has to change Woo-won even if he likes it or not??? helloo??? I've been putting off saying anything here, cuz yall in the comments get so sensitive whenever someone says anything about Seo-on's character but I cant anymore(& lowkey I kept lying to myself before that their relationship was perfect).
Yall were defending Seo-an before, saying that he's just more assertive & dominant and Woo-won is fine with that so no one else should complain but bffr, imagine your partner changing everything about you to fit their taste and NOT GIVING A FUCK IF YOU CONSENT TO IT OR NOT!! Also even if Woo-won thinks this is okay doesn't ACTAULLY mean it is, dumbass'.
He's trying so hard to make Woo-won extremly dependent on him. That's so not healthy, but yall keep deluding yourselves.
(all this said by a girlie that likes a little but of possessiveness too, but this isn't just that anymore, it's bordering toxic atp. Seo-an needs therapy or sumn lmao)