This!!
We're not saying that enjoying a trope in fiction is the same as enjoying it irl, but rather it's the refusal to be critical of these tropes or even allow others to be critical that raises concern. Discussion and criticism is a totally healthy aspect of a community and shouldn't be demonized, and the analysis and critique of enjoyable media is all a part of media literacy.
Though I will say, that it's one thing to critique media and another to judge or condemn those who consume said media based solely on the fact that they enjoy it.
But (for example) if someone in the comments were to read the latest chapter and start "shipping" a literal infant with a grown adult (fictional or otherwise), I think that's condemnable behavior worthy of critique because it does glean insight to a concerning pattern of thought.
Being "sensitive" to troubling themes is not a bad thing and it's those who cry and complain at the sight of criticism that are actually insecure and emotionally immature (or sensitive, if you will)
I'm sorry for the long response, I got kinda carried away quq
LMAOOOOOO AIN’T NO WAY Y’ALL ARE MAD CUZ WE DONT LIKE PREDATORY ASS AGE-GAP LOVE STORY any form of criticism is now being a hater, I just gotta laugh n close my eyes when reading some of this comments like LMAOOOOO