Yes, I totally agree with you.
Idk this is my opinion but I don’t think mental illness is an excuse? Like yeah Woo won wanted to stop because he was worried abt Seo an but in the first place he didn’t want to have sex and Seo an told him to hurry and get erect. He still forced himself on top of Woo won and disregarded his words. I see what ur saying w the mentally unstable part but yea this situation is rlly complex and we can’t really say anything until we see how they solve this issue.
Preach!!!! You said it better than I would’ve
I don't think they are saying mental illness is an excuse, but that Woowon wasn't saying stop because he felt he was being SAd. He was worried about Seo an's physical and emotional state and wanted him to calm down.
Many people in relationships dont want to acknowledge that they are being rape/have been raped. Just bc Woo won wont acknowledge it doesn’t mean it isnt rape.
We aren’t Woo won and we arent in an intimate relationship with Seo an so our minds should be clear enough to understand that it is still rape. The only reason why Woo won wont acknowledge it is because he loves Seo an and he can overlook it.
Woo-won is too innocent and precious to realize the situation he is in. This is new to him so he does not know what to do. It is clearly not ok.
Preachhhh!!! Why are you spitting facts all the time?
You can't be serious. You're trying to say you would tell a person who didn't feel uncomfortable or violated by their partner's actions that they were raped even though, the person involved doesn't see it that way?
Wdym he's innocent? They're the same age and Woowon has dated and had sex before. He's not a kid.
If the situation that they explained to be involves no consent… and is rape by definition and law… yes?? And I actually have done that to a friend before bc her boyfriend raped her but she was too blinded to realize until she told me and we had a talk.. i mean is that even a question..??
They mean naive.. clearly he has no experience being with someone like Seo an.
Since youre not grasping it ill give u a real situation that i myself have been it to maybe help you realize why people say “love is one hell of a drug” My mom had been abused by her husband for a good year. He would throw her around, leave bruises, break glass on her. And one day she had enough, she got all the photos of her injuries made by him and took it to court. She was going to put him away for domestic violence. But guess what. She dropped the charges, and you wanna know why? Because she “loved him” Love makes you crazy and sometimes it makes you endure things that you shouldn’t.
Are you kidding? You must be joking right? No way someone is this insensitive. Pains me that people like this exist. When I say innocent I mean he is a pushover, does not realize his situation, he is not exposed such things. He is too kind and generous for his own good. He does not realize how horrid humans can be.
Yes, thank you. I meant naive. Why are you such a great, empathetic human being?? I love you for this, thanks
LMAO dw i got you
You people need to remember not all relationships are sunshine and rainbows
absolute garbage contribution to this convo
Honestly I meant to reply somewhere else but I was tired and accidently clicked this message by accident.
I don't really view this as rape, Woo was just scared Seo was going to hurt himself and saw that he wasn't mentally stable, that's why he said stop. I think everyone keeps forgetting Seo has a lot of mental issues to work out still. I think they're still one of my favorite couples. They just need to communicate healthy again after this, sometimes at the peak of our emotions espically strong ones like anger, we don't think clearly.