What is SA?
sexual assault
You're lucky, I could never enjoy sex after being raped, its been over 10 years. It gives me flashbacks and my meds made my sex drive almost dissappear.
Yes those are the side effects of almost every psych meds and I do hope you're still doing fine. Y'all did your best in surviving that hell. And actually I'm also one of the SA victim of one of my relatives and up till now I see myself as a disgusting human.
be careful people will say you’re “overreacting” or being a “piss baby” bc that’s what they call the uke for having ptsd attacks in bed
I hope the people who assaulted us have a painful death. Im in a way better place now, Ive been taking those meds for almost 7 years now haha
You're not disgusting!
Where I'm from there's a saying that goes like this "pepper in another's eyes is refreshing" they say that bc they've never been through that. Idc if they do, we're probably in different continents anyway. Thank you for worrying though.
For real, I've told my parents abt it and cried abt it but they didn't even bat an eye. Actually, the predator (my uncle) was just recently discovered bc he touched another female kid and he got sued but he bailed bc he can pay. Also my mother (predator's sibling), suggested that the predator will live in the storage room in our backyard to avoid gossips cause the predator lived in the province. Now, my both my parents are letting him live near our house when he SA'd their daughter and that shattered me a lot. They chose the predator as their priority rather than me, a daughter. Now I hate my life. But I'll try to work and get out of this house soon as possible since I can't trust anyone anymore.
I'm manifesting for this actually, too bad, the person who did it to me was still roaming freely and spoiled a lot by my grandmother (first child=favorite). Soo I can't trust anyone anymore at this household and my relatives. After I get my license I'll move out and work. Let's do our best to live happy and enjoy this lif ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
The person that r@pe me was my partner at the time, I was in shock and didn’t put two and two together til 2 months later. I still have some trauma from it like I can’t have anyone out there hands on my throat or I get flash backs, I haven’t even told my bf now about it. I haven’t even told my parents about it (I’m 20) sometimes I can’t even admit that I was r@ped / physically assaulted
The fact that this isnt as rare as we think is frightening.
I heard you and I'm sorry this is happening to you. I'm sending good energy so you can get the hell outta there as soon as possible. I hope you get a safe place where you can heal.
As someone who was in his same place and SA, I was so scared hooking up with someone. Would I get flash backs? When I did sleep with someone again my body went into shock and got flash backs, started crying and couldn’t stop. Thankfully the person I was with just held me and made sure I was safe with him. SA truly has an impact on your life even if you feel like you have healed. 10 months later and I’m with the same person who made me feel safe for once.