I'm actually so mad at this situation what was Chunwoo thinking?! small recap of the situation for those who are confused: basically Chunwoo wanted to have rough sex with Ho-in but he wasn't sure if he would accept because he's always gentle and always treat him like he's the most precious thing in the world. so, against Woojin advice (ch.105) without even asking him, he decided that the best idea was to neglect him by spending all his time with Woojin (Ho-in's bff) to make him jealous in order to make him explode and finally have rough sex with him. this absolutely trash idea is flawed in many way, firstly ho-in is very insecure about their relationship because he started off as just a sex toy for Chunwoo who was in love with another man. Even after months of suffering and chasing, it took weeks after they started dating for Chunwoo to say that he loves Ho-in and has finally let go of his feelings for the other guy.
Secondly, having sex with an angry man isn't the same as having consenting kinky sex with your loved one, indeed! in the first situation it would be a violent act only used to vent frustration and assert dominance while for the latter it would be partners indulging in each other's fantasy knowing that they can stop at any moment.
Thirdly, making your bf jealous on purpose is a massive dick move. it's disrespectful, it's disgusting and generally a bad solution for a relationship problem
I'm actually so mad at this situation what was Chunwoo thinking?!
small recap of the situation for those who are confused:
basically Chunwoo wanted to have rough sex with Ho-in but he wasn't sure if he would accept because he's always gentle and always treat him like he's the most precious thing in the world. so, against Woojin advice (ch.105) without even asking him, he decided that the best idea was to neglect him by spending all his time with Woojin (Ho-in's bff) to make him jealous in order to make him explode and finally have rough sex with him.
this absolutely trash idea is flawed in many way,
firstly ho-in is very insecure about their relationship because he started off as just a sex toy for Chunwoo who was in love with another man. Even after months of suffering and chasing, it took weeks after they started dating for Chunwoo to say that he loves Ho-in and has finally let go of his feelings for the other guy.
Secondly, having sex with an angry man isn't the same as having consenting kinky sex with your loved one, indeed! in the first situation it would be a violent act only used to vent frustration and assert dominance while for the latter it would be partners indulging in each other's fantasy knowing that they can stop at any moment.
Thirdly, making your bf jealous on purpose is a massive dick move. it's disrespectful, it's disgusting and generally a bad solution for a relationship problem