Idk about 100% right but he’s right to be mad about MC going back on his words. Unfortunately they are human and they regret making certain choices. The one at fault is the stepbrother mostly for invoking that insecurity in MC. MC was accepting at first but now the thought of ML sleeping with others hurts him.
They really need a discussion, not ML shutting him off and refusing to communicate. But I guess he was just too mad to so I understand.
And MC asked for a reason as to why he even does sex with clients in the first place. ML ignored that, but he did say before that he doesn’t care about the money when he does sex with clients so why can’t he drop that part?
MC doesn’t want him to quit his job, just limit it to stripping. Not a big deal if he isn’t doing sex for money, he doesn’t have to even do sex then. So I am glad MC asked but they really should’ve communicated before dating, and if they’re really sure, in my opinion they dated a little too quick for my liking.
i'm responding to the last two paragraphs.
"....why can’t he drop that part?" but WHY should he HAVE to? i don't understand this point. it doesn't matter whether yoogon's reasons for continuing to have sex with his clients are valid to junghae or not because they don't matter. junghae KNEW yoogon has sex with his clients, and will continue to have sex with them even after they're in a relationship. he knew this and he willingly got into a relationship with yoogon. the moment he entered the relationship knowing this he lost any right he had to complain or feel insecure about yoogon having sex with other people.
yoogon has made it clear before and is still crystal clear about it: he will have sex with his clients because he is a sex worker. the "why" does NOT matter. he has no obligation to answer that because junghae doesn't have any right to ask that question. he definitely doesn't have the right to ask yoogon to change.
again, why are you dating a sex worker if you get jealous at the thought of them having sex with other people? no one is forcing junghae to stay, he can fuck off if he doesn't like yoogon's lifestyle. yoogon has no obligation to change any part of himself.
No it’s a simple question because ML shares little to none about himself compared to how much MC has shared about his own struggles and other stuff. They aren’t just roommates, they are partners. MC does have the right to ask if he’s his partner, sure they agreed beforehand but things can change once again. And it’s up to ML if he wants to break up.
But I am curious as to why he ends things because he’s told to quit the sex part only? What’s such a big deal about sex when he does not have to do it? If I remember correctly, he doesn’t have any debt or that we know of, and he himself said he doesn’t care for money.
What you said is fair but the reasons do matter, at least so we know ML’s side of the story and so MC could understand better. MC seems to be the type to be more accepting once he understands. And yes he knew what he got himself into so I don’t pity him too much but no one should have to feel insecure in a relationship although he brought that on himself.
And I thought ML’s main job was stripping? He doesn’t have to do sex work, and MC is trying to understand why, although he should’ve asked earlier (I don’t remember if he did). Both of them aren’t communicating as much, especially ML. It’s wrong for only MC to try to communicate and get answers, yes he’s in the wrong for going back on his words but both need to have a discussion and without any violence.
And I feel like they rushed into dating NGL. Also (I didn’t write this someone did) I sincerely feel like it’s way more than mc thinking ml could’ve slept with his brother. From the start, ml has been so secretive about his past and it’s clear that mc has opened up more than ml. Mc was probably ok/thought he was ok with ml sleeping with clients initially but the longer they date, the more he realised that he feels uneasy with ml’s secretiveness (WHICH IS COMPLETELY OK BTW, your opinion can change). Especially with the ex appearance and everything. The brother is just a catalyst that turned mc’s anxiety into doubt. It sounds like I’m just blaming ml but clearly both of them are at fault and this convo could’ve gone better with better coms from both sides
If they are partners, both need to feel secure in their relationship and build trust, one can’t do it alone. They are partners for a reason but it’s not working out here, they lack communication and more doubts.
Why CAN’T ML drop that part? Is my question. Why does he have to do it? To the point of prioritizing his clients over his partner? To the point he’s ending relationships over that when he doesn’t even care for money? Is my question. It’s not a big compromise to ask for either. Again, yes they agreed beforehand, but things can change.
MC most likely didn’t expect to feel insecure as they continued to date. He thought he could handle it.
Why should ML have to? He doesn’t have to but him avoiding the question makes MC feel more insecure and anxious. And what ML did in the raws isn’t helping his case.
sorry for bunch of replies. Last one incoming:
ML sees sex work as transaction maybe and MC sees it differently. I think they are just not compatible in that aspect and should break up. MC going back on his words is already a dealbreaker, it’s up to ML if he wants to break up over that. Let’s see how this goes.
Anyways I still keep my words, no one should have to feel insecure regardless of what they agreed on earlier. Even if you have a sex worker as your partner, you should also do your best to not make your partner feel insecure and instead of hiding things or being overly defensive, calmly talk it out.
Nah I lied sorry this one last for real and I’ll be asleep, checking replies in the afternoon!
So MC is quitting to work at his job since he paid the debt off. Ugly loan shark dude offered to pay off ML’s debts he has to the club but ML since that’s not the reason he’s working at the club, not to pay off debts.
As a former sex worker, you do not need to quit if your partner wants you to. But if you willingly do sex without a reason you tell to your partner, you’re just causing more insecurity to your partner whom you should be loving and caring for their feelings as well. But I understand ML was mad here because MC thought he’d sleep with just anyone including the ugly dude.
I only did sex work for MONEY, but here ML says he’s not doing it for money, so I do not understand why he has to end relationships because his partner wishes him to. If he isn’t in need of money, what is he there for? He’s so secretive that it’s hurting MC.
If you’re doing sex work just for sex, why do that when you have your partner? It’s just icky unless both agree that ML can do it even if it’s not for money. Which wasn’t what they agreed to earlier on.
The big issue is ML hiding something and he isn’t being truthful. He even told the loan shark dude it’s not the money that keeps him working at the job in ch. 62 or 63
I get ur point but just like wht he said he thought he was fine with it but eventually realized that he cant. He had a right to feel those emotions cz he loves him but yeah its something he need to live up with bcz he entered in that relationship knowing the fact that he wont stop having sezz with his clients. What wrong abt this is why he cant trust him enough to give or tell him the reason why he cant stop doing it ? I think the mc just want a reason why?
Jesus Christ I hope you never get into a relationship
Cause clearly it seems like you wouldn’t give a shit about your partners feelings
Yes things may change after agreed on but that’s why they should communicate and hear each other out, things can change. And ML didn’t help by saying it’s not his business when it is, they’re fucking partners
Exactly!!
It’s not fair that everyone’s blaming MC when both aren’t exactly in the right or wrong. It’s a difficult situation. MC couldn’t help himself but that doesn’t mean he lost his trust, and ML isn’t helping the least by shutting him off and not doing his part in the communications as a PARTNER.
Some of these people clearly haven’t been in a relationship or prioritizes partner feelings. It’s the least you can do or the bare minimum as a partner.
Yes they agreed beforehand but now MC really wants to know the reason, and some people going on about how he went back on the agreement but that’s not the big issue anymore—the issue is that ML isn’t as open as MC is. And he’s not even telling MC that he’s not ready to say yet, he’s just shutting him off.
Both should apologize to each other. ML ain’t it right now, they need a break smh.
Yes!! Everything you said is on point!! It’s so frustrating reading the comments because most of them are blaming the MC
at this point i believe the author should've just ended this after yoogon and junghae ended up together because it definitely feels like they're pulling the current conflict between the two out of their own ass. junghae dated yoogon knowing he's a sex worker, and suddenly he's insecure that yoogon may be fucking other people? and he has the audacity to suspect yoogon would even consider fucking junghae's brother? yoogon is 100% in the right here, i would've been livid if i were him. don't get into a relationship knowing your partner is a sex worker and then try to change them later. the fact that people are defending junghae at all boggles my mind.
this whole thing feels too OOC tbh, their personalities are getting destroyed. they couldn't have had a better or at least less nonsensical conflict?