Cause what youre in love with is a curated selection of aspects the female creator likes, even the female gaze alienates/ omits the flaws of men ( just like how male orientated media geared toward male gaze do with the idea of women) while romantizing the part they want more of. This is a female self fulfillment fantasy after all, its what we want to see, not really focusing real life, an blissful illusion at best. Real life is often disappointing.
tbh tysm cuz I needed this reality check
i just got reality checked in a mangago comment section
Oh ! Wow ok . The reality check was uncalled for—i just wanted to agree with the comment☹
why are guys like this a whole extinct species