man ngl junghae kinda messed up here. like I very much understand his feelings but... u en...

akingisa December 23, 2023 10:13 pm

man ngl junghae kinda messed up here. like I very much understand his feelings but... u entered into the rs knowing exactly what yoogons boundaries were ?? like u accepted the risk? u told yoogon u wouldn't have expectations. idk just kinda messed up

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    Heu77 December 24, 2023 12:25 am

    People can change their mind over time and realize they fucked up, MC regret it probably and thought he could handle this but can’t now. He’s too insecure and wants Ml to stick to stripping only, he doesn’t want ML to quit but just don’t do sex.

    akingisa December 25, 2023 8:57 am
    People can change their mind over time and realize they fucked up, MC regret it probably and thought he could handle this but can’t now. He’s too insecure and wants Ml to stick to stripping only, he doesn�... Heu77

    totally fine but the main contention and insecurity at the Start of their rs WAS this issue and he made it clear that hey! i will be there for u! that insecurity won't happen because I will trust u!
    it's like getting w someone who's in the closet and telling them it's fine if they r in the closet because you'll be there and then demanding they come out when u guys get tgthr?
    tbh i don't think mc is villian or anth bc his feelings r valid but i don't think he's handling it ithr right/mature way

    Heu77 December 25, 2023 9:23 am
    totally fine but the main contention and insecurity at the Start of their rs WAS this issue and he made it clear that hey! i will be there for u! that insecurity won't happen because I will trust u!it's like ge... akingisa

    Neither of them are handling it the mature way tbf. ML isn’t opening up either, whereas MC had shared a lot about him, well it’s not right to force someone to open up, how long does MC have to wait for ML to open up as his insecurity spirals out? He even just asked for a reason why he can’t quit sex only, ML didn’t answer.

    ML before also said that he doesn’t do sex for money so it’s not like he has to do sex.

    akingisa December 27, 2023 7:52 pm
    Neither of them are handling it the mature way tbf. ML isn’t opening up either, whereas MC had shared a lot about him, well it’s not right to force someone to open up, how long does MC have to wait for ML t... Heu77

    i don't disagree w ur points esp on the opening up part. ml obviously has some unresolved personal issues. as for his personal rs w sex i think demanding it be changed isn't really a right he can hold over him but I do think an understanding needs to be there

    Heu77 December 27, 2023 7:55 pm
    i don't disagree w ur points esp on the opening up part. ml obviously has some unresolved personal issues. as for his personal rs w sex i think demanding it be changed isn't really a right he can hold over him ... akingisa

    I mean if ML says he isn’t doing it for money, there obviously needs to be a discussion so MC can understand and a compromise or just break up.

    akingisa December 27, 2023 8:01 pm
    I mean if ML says he isn’t doing it for money, there obviously needs to be a discussion so MC can understand and a compromise or just break up. Heu77

    agreed. ml has a right to do what he wants esp since this was a boundary he set but he also needs to explain his side at this point and mc needs to be willing to trust n hear him out instead of assuming

    Heu77 December 27, 2023 8:25 pm
    agreed. ml has a right to do what he wants esp since this was a boundary he set but he also needs to explain his side at this point and mc needs to be willing to trust n hear him out instead of assuming akingisa

    MC has tried to communicate and asked for a reason but ML shut him off. Yeah they really need to talk and come to a decision.