I just don’t like the permanent defining of someone position in bed

Ew no

The future uke was a straight man this entire time- it’s pretty low like I’d say about a 5% chance stuff like that happening in real life. Guys just don’t jump at the chance at bottoming and why the hell does it have to the only way things go gay relationships don’t exactly work like that and this uke is not some feminine twink not that it would matter but still

Well I like it

Bro many straight guys enjoy getting it in the ass too yk

A would say a decent amount BUT many I don’t know about. To each his own

Can someone tell me what a Seki couple is? Also yes the guy with glasses is the top I think (I read raws but it's not that many chapters ahead tbh)

What do you mean « ew »

you forgot the part where its fiction, it doesn't have to be realistic. :)

If you want to read something more realistic, try reading Until I Meet My Husband if you haven't. Don't expect something to be realistic in a yaoi manhwa, 80% it would never happen and all you'll get is disappointment.

P.S. try learning that fiction ≠ reality

I am well aware it’s fiction but that aspect of fiction is why sometimes the lgbtq+ community has issues with yaoi because of its portrayal of male on male relationships—- I didn’t say I didn’t enjoy the work as a whole I am simply saying I don’t like putting characters into boxes of defined permanent sexual positions

Fiction depicts off reality, so I guess ur right but it would also be nice for some good rep

Ngl I agree, (I finally searched up what seke means) I've been searching for a seke couple manga for so god damn long but the only things I can find try to insert leeway so its not actually seke. In a way though it's kind of funny how pretty much every manga asserts specific roles? I wonder if people think it's the same way in reality too

No hate, just tired of seeing these extremely in your face heteronormative stuff. It's just tiring that almost not a single piece of media here (especially in sexual aspects) seems to actually rep correctly unless it's made by the people themselves. Not that they have to of course but genuinely I feel like I searched everywhere and can only count with one hand how many actually did just that. I enjoy fiction, and like fiction because it's fiction, but sometimes it's nice to read something that I can look at and actually relate to. Sorry this was way longer than I thought it would be Anyway can someone give recommendations I beg of you

YOU ARE MY NEW BFFL :). Look up neko x neko , the cornered mouse dreams of cheese + the carp on the chopping block jumps twice- those are the best ones at least to me for a seki couple

Im well aware of the hate yaoi is to the gay community, however, not all gay men prefer switching than to have a fixed position in bed. So just because 80% (or 90% not sure since its manhwa) of yaoi manhwas have a fixed sexual position, doesn't mean that its automatically "unrealistic". Besides, yaoi manhwa are known for having shitty toxic relationships so if gay rep is what you're looking for, don't expect much from yaoi manhwa. If you're looking for switch manhwas or mangas, then try searching for a list or ask on the question section, im pretty sure there are a bunch of works that has it. But if its gay rep you're looking for, its better if you read bara or try finding yaoi made by men because if you expect good rep from all yaoi manhwas then prepare to always get disappointed.

I agree though, there's not a lot of good rep in yaoi manhwas (and a lot of toxic ones too) which is why i prefer shounen ai and yaoi with less sex in it (more focused to the plot even though sometimes it doesn't make it better).

TY

I completely agree. It kind of feels like there's less Shounen ai's recently though. Maybe I'm just imagining it because I haven't been on here in a while though

it depends on the genre of shounen ai i think(?) ngl its still better than most of the newer/popular yaoi manhwas out there. I will never understand the hype for toxic tops

toxicity + good art is basically just shock bait for quick clicks. Seems to be the new trend lately, and it's just about sad enough to work. Just look at jinx for an example and a few others that have been popular lately. They have their own degenerate fan bases

Were you able to check out neko x neko and or the other manga the fish in the chopping block jumps twice? Did you like them?