no hate. but i would like to defend the bottom hahhaha. in his case, he's desperate to be in favor of the top because of the work issue, desperate equating to he has no choice. he knows he hates it but again, he can't do anything because he has no other option if he don't want his career ruined. we can say that he can just quit. but we really dont knowhis entire sitch so we can't say what other factors he's considering to be this desperate. and i can only blame all their issues on the top. HE has experience with BDSM not the bottom, he does things that's convenient to him even going as far as not honoring their "safe word". the bottom used it, he refused to honor it. the top is the sole asshole in this sitch. ALSO, he's in a higher position from the bottom, so that's abuse of power, he knows the bottom is desperate and he took advantage of that desperation.
but again this is just how i understood the story.
Because the one to blame is the one who controls everything, like he literally is using the safe word as decoration. The dom knows the sub hates anything sexual and he knows he is inexperienced and continues to push and push until the sub has a trauma response in bed like isn’t the answer clear here???
Yeah, the people who keep saying, "wEll WhY diD hE aGrEe tO tHiS wHeN hE Had ThiS kind oF trauma?" must have either missed the whole first part of the manhwa or they must be very young/sheltered with no real life experience. A choice of A. trying to endure something you don't really know how you're going to react to for a very short amount of time, or B. never being able to get a decent job for the whole rest of your life, is no choice at all.
the both of them r pissing me off,,, i don't get why some of these readers are blaming one when they dont understand that they both of them r sorta at fault.
one clearly doesn't understand that the other is traumatized and continues to force him into having sex. the other is clearly uncomfortable with past trauma yet continues to force himself to be in such a relationship.
the ml told the mc that they were going to have a safeword, he let him know what he was going to do to him, and yet sometimes he disregards what he says.
the mc doesn't use the safeword because he feels too scared to say it, and doesn't understand the play which is why he feels the ml hates him.
soooo basically the both of them r passing me off