I think people are being too harsh on Mr Kwon. Sure, I get that he mistreated Yeon-oh for ...

millefeuille December 17, 2023 1:50 pm

I think people are being too harsh on Mr Kwon. Sure, I get that he mistreated Yeon-oh for quite some time, & the fact that he forcefully had sex with him right after the incident in the club didn't help either. But aren't you forgetting something? The situation back then was extremely complicated. For one, there was that issue w/ the USB that Yeon-oh had found but didn't tell Mr Kwon about b/c he was afraid of losing the only connection (the USB) to Mr Kwon. This angered him & broke the trust he had for Yeon-oh. Then Yeon-oh got himself into trouble at the club in a reckless move to console himself after the quarrel w/ Mr Kwon & almost got himself raped. Luckily Mr Kwon intervened just in time, but the response he got was "why did you come?", and I'm not trying victim blame Yeon-oh, but he was so defiant in his answers that Mr Kwon mistakenly thought he was out looking for sex or a new sugar daddy. Now to be fair, Mr Kwon did not fully grasp the circumstances until he reviewed the hidden camera clip much later, & only then did he realize he misunderstood Yeon-oh & the whole situation. Now back to the issue of the forced sex, sure it was wrong on so many levels & could never be justified under any circumstances. And I don't condone it either. But that being said, I understood the frame of mind the two were in that led to it, Yeon-oh who was in a world of pain thinking he'd never have Mr Kwon's love, could not bring himself to be more amicable & as a result further escalated an already very tense situation, and Mr Kwon who was incensed & feeling betrayed finally snapped b/c of the way Yeon-oh handled things & probably in his mind, he just gave him by force the very thing (sex) he sought at the club. Mind you, these two individuals have their own flaws & each contributed somewhat to the deterioration of things. I know, they should've talked right? Sure, but in the heat of the moment, actions spoke louder than words, & unfortunately that was what they both chose. But again, from an emotional standpoint, I understand this also. Everything was so hectic & happened in such rapid succession, the clashing of so many negative emotions, the broken trust, the misunderstanding, who could have spared any thoughts about talking things out when both were so heated & high-strung ready to snap? I think Mr Kwon had paid his due during this chasing arc. I think he sincerely regretted the entire thing once he understood the situation. I don't think he needs to grovel or beg more, but I think he deserves a final clear answer to his love confession. As for Yeon-oh, I think he needs to decide & give that final answer so as not to further torture himself too. Whether it's a yes or a no is up to him, whatever is best for him.

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    こうし December 17, 2023 3:04 pm

    Real, they both need to talk shit out for the love of god